Money and Finance - Experts and Resources

Are the Odds Stacked in Favor of "Gold Diggers"?

Posted to by Marilyn Stowe on Fri, 01/20/2012 - 8:20am

I have been fortunate enough recently to attend two horse racing events. I love the races, even though I’m not much of a gambler. The sleek lines of the beautiful horses, the roar of the crowd, everyone dressed up to the nines; intent on having a really good time and celebrating the King of Sports.

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How to Minimize Divorce Costs in a Recession

10 tips to help you cope

Posted to by Marilyn Stowe on Wed, 12/28/2011 - 8:37am

Divorce is always turbulent, and often fraught with unexpected complications, but an economic recession may make a bad situation worse. If you are about to divorce or are considering it, choices made now will have a significant impact upon your financial future.

Here are 10 tips to help you cope:

1. Move swiftly. If your divorce drags on, costs will mount. Prepare details of respective finances with supporting documentation as soon as possible.

Find a reputable solicitor who will provide a good steer on the outcome of your case and an estimate of likely costs. Issuing an application to court, timetables the case and can save legal costs in the long run.

If a divorce is imminent and you live overseas or have overseas connections, immediate action is essential — legislation and likely financial settlements vary from country to country.

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A List of Gifts That Can Help Pull Your Family Together, Rather Than Apart

Posted to by Linda Lee on Wed, 12/21/2011 - 8:09am

Here’s the problem with most Christmas presents: you already have it or you don’t want it. And as soon as it’s open, you’ve already forgotten what it was. Worse if you’re the one giving the present, and you’ve just watched someone open three identical gifts, one of which was yours. Worse yet, when the ex-husband outspends you four-to-one on presents for your children.

Especially this year, throwing money around just seems wrong.

So here’s a proposal. Try coming up with Christmas and Hanukkah presents that pull people together instead of splitting them apart. That offer an experience instead of something to be dumped in the bottom of a closet, or regifted.

It takes some thinking (which is free!) and you have to know the person well. But here are some ideas for holiday gifts that keep on giving.

• The bored teenager who has everything (1)

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Don't Let Your Ex Ruin Your Credit

Q & A On Personal Finance

Posted to by Stacy Francis on Fri, 12/02/2011 - 7:56am

From Megan Thomas: If I file for divorce, yet still have some joint credit accounts with my husband that I haven't yet closed, am I responsible for any debt he incurs during this time? Also, what is the smartest financial move for me: saving up some money and stashing it away, or working hard to pay down the debt we have together so I'm not burdened with it during the divorce?

Stacy Francis writes:

Don't let your ex ruin your credit and don't stick your head in the sand!

Once you've identified your debt, of course, your main goal is to keep it from getting any worse. The easy and quick way to do this is to close any joint credit card accounts prior to becoming separated or as soon as possible after separation. At the very least, you should refrain from using any joint cards once you are separated and open up your own credit card accounts.

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How To Protect Your Assets During Divorce

an interview with attorney and accountant, Debra Speyer

Posted to by Debbie Nigro on Sat, 10/22/2011 - 9:24am

Attorney and accountant Debra Speyer says everyone who gets married should have a prenup even if it's not the most romantic thing in the world. As women marry later in life and go through more than one divorce, they need to protect their assets. To learn more about Debra Speyer, go to www.speyerlaw.com.

 

Related Content:

Q & A On Money Matters Before You Divorce, by Certified Financial Planner, Lili Vasileff

Pre-Nup or Nope: Why You Must Talk About Money, by relationship expert, Dr. Bonnie Eaker Weil

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Making Ends Meet When Child Support Payments Fall Short

Posted to by Elizabeth Cox on Wed, 10/12/2011 - 7:29am

The saying goes that the face of poverty is a woman.

Make that a divorced or single mother with insufficient child support. On average women experience a dramatic drop in their standard of living after divorce while a man's standard of living improves significantly.

Why the disparity?

First of all, because there is no financial value assigned to the time we tend to our children, this value is not computed in divorce agreements. There is no accounting for the opportunity cost of lost salary and career growth for the hours spent taking care of a child.

Also, child support guidelines, which are determined state by state, are not intended to cover all costs associated with raising a child, and often fall far short. They take into account the cost of food, housing, clothing, and some healthcare expenses. But they do not cover a range of other expenses from after school activities like music lessons or sport lessons to vacations, or restaurant meals to school supplies. These expenses rise significantly as children get older.

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3 Financial Clues That He Is Looking for a Divorce

with Lili Vasileff

Posted to by Debbie Nigro on Sat, 09/24/2011 - 8:38am

When you can't read his mind, read his pocketbook! Believe it or not, your husband's financial activity may provide plenty of clues as to if he's considering divorce. Watch as Financial Expert Lili Vasileff tells Debbie what to look for.

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