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Naomi Dunne • 5/13/2008
It looks like Jim and Dina McGreevey are back in court this morning dealing with alimony. Yes,...
Maureen Dempsey • 5/12/2008
Actress Liv Tyler and musician Royston Langdon have split, says Usmagazine.com. The daughter of...
Maureen Dempsey • 5/09/2008
Former New Jersey Governor Jim McGreevey and Dina Matos McGreevey reached a child custody...
Maureen Dempsey • 5/07/2008
Robin and Marsha Garces Williams have pledged to be honest, cooperative, and respectful during...
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On Thursday afternoons I go to a writing workshop in the basement of a local novelist's home. You've maybe read some books workshopped and developed in that basement, or seen the... read more»
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Wanda Woodard • 5/14/2008
Family. That is what holidays have traditionally been about. Father helps children celebrate Mother's Day by purchasing a card or two, flowers, a gift....
Megan Thomas • 5/14/2008
I'm beginning to realize that this state of limbo just isn't going to work. A while back I decided to just disregard the feelings I had about leaving, and...
Faith Eggers • 5/13/2008
My uncle and his girlfriend were married yesterday. They've been together for 16 plus years. I've already taken to calling his girlfriend my aunt. It's just...
In this episode, Shirley Washington Lewis talks about the overwhelming self-doubt she experienced when she left her marriage. She weathered a...watch »
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6/01/2007
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Shirley Washington holds six beauty titles and was a Miss Black America. Here, she talks about...
5/17/2007
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Here, attorney Rachel Fishman Green talks about why she became a divorce mediator, the benefits...
5/08/2007
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The decision to leave a marriage is always hard and in Amy's case, it was no different. Amy...
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If you and your Ex have joint custody, you know all about the dreaded "drop-off". But are your drop-off tactics helpful or hurtful to your...watch »
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Judith Scheffler • 5/14/2008
Shed enough tears? Done second-guessing your actions, his actions and all the "what- ifs"?   Great! Now it's time to start dating. If you're middle-aged...
Vanessa • 5/14/2008
I spent over 10 years going to my Dad's House every other weekend, being picked-up on Friday and dropped off on Sunday, and if there is one thing I would...
Debbie Does Divorce with Debbie Nigro
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When you separate or divorce, and your husband moves out, how do you...
I've said it before and I'll say it again, "kids aren't stupid" and they are very intuitive.  I never saw my parents fight or even raise their voices to each other, but I knew they... read more»
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Debbie Does Divorce with Debbie Nigro
5/12/2008
Preparing your child(ren) for divorce is a tough task. But are they already...
Cathy Meyer • 5/12/2008
In my last article, I wrote about things to consider before making the decision to divorce. This article deals with accepting and recognizing when it is...
A.J. • 5/09/2008
The basic and average family unit consists of one maternal unit, one paternal unit, and on average two child units. This is the way children (including...
If you and your Ex have joint custody, you know all about the dreaded "drop-off". But are your drop-off tactics helpful or hurtful to your...watch »
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5/13/2008
When you separate or divorce, and your husband moves out, how do you...
A.J. • 5/13/2008
It was a Saturday; I remember the morning distinctly because that was when it happened. I was sat down in a big brown and cozy recliner and told by my...
Christina Rowe • 5/12/2008
Most of us have heard the jokes portraying lawyers as money-hungry sharks. Unfortunately some of these jokes are based on truths. As you begin this journey,...
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Judith Scheffler • 5/14/2008
Shed enough tears? Done second-guessing your actions, his actions and all the "what- ifs"?   Great! Now it's time to start dating. If you're middle-aged...
Vanessa • 5/14/2008
I spent over 10 years going to my Dad's House every other weekend, being picked-up on Friday and dropped off on Sunday, and if there is one thing I would...
Marsha Temlock • 5/09/2008
Most step moms don't expect warm and fuzz Hallmark greetings this holiday. But, you can have a loving relationship with your step children. It just takes...
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by Mimi Schmir, one of the writers from "Grey's Anatomy"
For a long time my favorite piece of literature was this play called "Mother Courage and Her Children." I couldn't really relate to the literal story (among other things, it is about war), but I loved the name. The play was written in 1939, by the German dramatist and poet Bertholt Brecht and I always remember it around this time of the year because I think on Mother's Day it is particularly apropos. This is why.
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Episode 23: Breaking The Rules
by Mimi Schmir, one of the writers from "Grey's Anatomy"
There is nothing predictable about being in the middle of your life. I've learned that much, if I've learned anything. (Well, except for flabby upper arms....
Episode 22: Mr. Charisma Meets Obi Wan
by Mimi Schmir, one of the writers from "Grey's Anatomy"
It was bound to happen. The space-time continuum would suggest that it was inevitable. Like the full moon, the rising tide, like me being late for carpool...
Episode 21: Breast Intentions
by Mimi Schmir, one of the writers from "Grey's Anatomy"
I have to admit, my boobs have always been a big part of my life. Literally. They showed up late — I was fifteen (kind of apropos for me) but once they...