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"How do you feel about exposing the body you have now?" I wrote to a friend we'll call "Charlotte", who's obviously attractive by any conventional measure (adorable, actually) but is in her 40s, divorced with two tween-age kids and&
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Friday, 07 January 2011 06:50
In my last column, I talked about dating friends and why it may feel comfortable. But there are some downsides to friend-dating.  "Of course, there are some pitfalls to…
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Tuesday, 23 November 2010 14:01
"Date my friends? What do you mean, 'date my friends?' My friends are married!"True, after you're married, most of your friends end up being other married couples, whether because everybody in your old crowd climbed life' &
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Wednesday, 17 November 2010 10:44
Referencing the old proverbial phrase, it used to be that certain marriages started to get stale after the seven-year itch. Now, according to statistics, the bloom is disappearing off the rose within&
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Thursday, 11 November 2010 15:19
In all the years I've been writing passionately as a love and sex advisor, there are two appropriate topics that seem to come up more often than others when it comes to getting back in the dating game after having been out of it&
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Wednesday, 10 November 2010 08:11
Yes, that's my big question of the day. Is "dating" such an adolescent preoccupation that we are doomed to recapitulate our own spotty youth every time that phone rings or, worse, doesn't? Is there anything to be learned from the seemingly&
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Thursday, 14 October 2010 13:03
"You pays your money," I said as we discussed taking the occasional foray into un-safer sex now that you might be dating again for the first time, in a long time, since you married, and more importantly, since your&
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Wednesday, 29 September 2010 09:01
If we want to get better at something we have to know where we're screwing up, and after kicking this one around a little it appears that the Big Six post-divorce dating errors go something like this, in no particular&
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Tuesday, 14 September 2010 04:35
In my view, finding the best dating site has much less to do with being a divorced woman than with avoiding overwhelm and considering factors other than marital history. Here are my picks: a target="_blank"…"
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Friday, 18 June 2010 09:13
So where did we leave the safer-sex discussion? I know I was letting my own probably-too-mixed feelings about defaulting immediately to latex in a new sexual situation flap freely in the breeze, but what about you? Are you a "partner picker," like me, or a "no glove, no love" lover like most of&
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Thursday, 10 June 2010 09:09