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Many times people ask me what sign is romantically compatible with their sign. They tell me they're not supposed to get along with Aries (or some other sign) but they've had relationships with Aries for years, am I wrong?

The "answer" lies in understanding your whole chart and for that you should get your chart read by a good astrologer. In terms of lust and romance, the sign that your Venus and Mars was in when you were born may hold some clues for happiness between the sheets, as well as in love. Or your moon sign may call out to another's moon and your emotions feel in sync. It's more complicated than just saying that Cancerians are a good match for you, or conversely that all relationships with Scorpio are bad matches. Self-knowledge is the key.

However, we live in a fast-paced society and people may not want to take the time to understand their whole chart. There's a simplified way to determine what signs work for you in terms of overall communication — that is, between the sheets, talking, dating or planning a life together.

Each astrological sign has an element — fire, earth, air and water. Signs of the same element speak the same language and their communication on all levels is usually easy and fun. So find your elemental buddies and see how it goes. The fire signs are Aries, Leo and Sagittarius. The earth signs are Taurus, Virgo and Capricorn. The air signs are Gemini, Libra and Aquarius, and the water signs are Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces.

Below are some specific combos that mix the elements, but usually create highly-charged chemistry.

Top 10 Hot Matches:

1. Scorpio woman and Taurus man: These opposite powerhouses goose up the sexual temperature. Water and earth make everything grow.

2. Aries man and Sagittarius woman: Fire and fire create a blaze of enthusiastic sex where no one gets burned; they just feel hot all over.

3. Aquarius woman and Gemini man: Both air signs whirl their fantasies to create the most inventive sex scenarios imaginable.

4. Capricorn man and Virgo woman: These earth signs are proper, but together, in private, their sensual natures take a vacation from "shoulds" and "oughts."

5. Pisces man and Scorpio woman: Two water signs have creeks, rivers, lakes, and oceans of sexy feelings. And Scorpio cannot manipulate Pisces. Very sexy.

6. Leo man and Cancer woman: Fire and water come together to make a hot combo blessed by their signs' rulers, the Sun, and the Moon.

7. Capricorn woman and Scorpio man: A Goat and a Scorpion locked in an ancient dance of lust. What a way to go!

8. Cancer man and Scorpio woman: Watery and possessive, these two make a secret partnership for pleasure.

9. Aries woman and Scorpio man: Fire and water boil. Plus, these two signs share the rulership of Mars, god of war. Need I say more?

10. Libra woman and Cancer man: Air and water create bubbles of joy; they are the sweetest, sexiest, most romantic combo of all.

You can learn more about specific astrological sign pairings in my book The Everything Sex Signs Book.

Here are links to my three favorite astrological sites:

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  • Comment Link tigist Tuesday, 06 September 2016 14:23 posted by tigist

    I am Capricorn women and my husband is Leo we love each other and perfect much for sex but we are working hard but it's not easy to get money what we much to do please help as

  • Comment Link AJ S Sunday, 17 July 2016 04:35 posted by AJ S

    Leo Women and Aqua male, the adventures are constant, the humor is on point and the dreams are endless. and umm yea the sex is out of this world and so hot and fiery, If there is any other people looking at what an aqua man and leo women relationship is like, I'm telling you it smokes most out there, aqua men you need to overpower and control your leo women, she will love it I promise, but at the same time listen to your leo women and what she need swxually, physically, emotionally and spiritually, listen to her and prove through your actions that you took her advice, because they know, they just know. The only way to tame your leo women is open up your cold heart aqua men, be open about it because my leo women has showed me how to love, which is what we need I love my leo women

  • Comment Link Karelyn Thursday, 26 November 2015 02:32 posted by Karelyn

    Ummmmm how about Gemini woman?

  • Comment Link _.Nikki._ Friday, 12 June 2015 21:08 posted by _.Nikki._

    They were expressing the truth when it came to Taurus man and Scorpio woman listed at #1 . I never turned down the passion from lovemaking with my Taurus boyfriend.

  • Comment Link Guest Sunday, 07 April 2013 12:24 posted by Guest

    Is the author a Scorpio by any chance? This article is so biased. And the hottest match you can come up for Libra is Cancer? YIKES! From personal experience and the personal testimony of many others - Libra paired with a Taurus is what wet dreams are made of!

  • Comment Link Guest Saturday, 10 November 2012 10:45 posted by Guest

    Look opposites attract: Sexually a Pisces woman and saggaturis male crazy love making anything goes talking about hot in bed these two combined beats the odds don't knock it til you try it.

  • Comment Link Guest Friday, 17 August 2012 17:20 posted by Guest

    Haha I agree 100%!!!: Haha I agree 100%!!!

  • Comment Link Guest Thursday, 17 May 2012 03:54 posted by Guest

    WHAT!: i will have to raise my voice and deny! such a disgraceful comment.
    I am a Scorpio cusp on Sag. I am very offended by your words. One of my best friends, is a Libra, scorpio cusp. And he is more of an asshole when it comes to life. believe me a stranger, but i am telling the truth. this man is the farthest thing from being a saint. and i know a couple who is married too, and they are both happpy and the female aries loves her scorpio male. i think this is a good couple, their both freaking crazy. but they love each other very much. their going to share a child after four years of marriage and almost ten years of being in each others life. i dont know if the sex is what keeps them alive in marriage. but they are happy and in honest opinion. i look forward to finding me a perfect mate with fire sign or water. but hey thats me.

  • Comment Link Guest Monday, 30 April 2012 18:20 posted by Guest

    libra woman cancer man: highly attracted to each other and the fireworks in bed..ohhhhh i love my cancer man mi dulces

  • Comment Link Guest Friday, 27 April 2012 08:12 posted by Guest

    Many animals have sex for: Many animals have sex for fun. The most famous are the Bonobos. Also, in my experience, the gender stereotypes are often exactly opposite of what happens in real life.

  • Comment Link Guest Thursday, 01 March 2012 08:27 posted by Guest

    As a biological entity sex: As a biological entity sex and reproduction are as much a part of your make up as anything else. As humans the fact we have emotional tie thrown into sex is actually biologically strange. We are the only species on the planet that has sex for the fun of it, rather than the necessity and apart from a few species of bird we are able to attach to partners for life. From a male point of view id say men lust and women love. Love for a man is not complete unless its for his kids. Then the love for the woman is also complete, providing the man has more brain cells than an amoeba, which is hard to find these days. Until that point and until ready for it all the final trimmings, men lust. Love comes after, so sex is a barometer of your relationship. No one can love on a romantic level without sex being involved, it isnt a by product, it comes first and both develop together. The sex and the love that is.

  • Comment Link Guest Saturday, 28 January 2012 03:42 posted by Guest

    i agree: i totally agree with your comment, i'm a cancer man and i've found my perfect sexual match is a female leo.

  • Comment Link Guest Friday, 27 January 2012 05:45 posted by Guest

    Don"t agree: I don't agree with all this. Sex is not part of your life. Love is part of your life sex is just the by product. Any two persons in love will have a happy life. These stars or horoscope doesn't matter. When two people are in love everything including sex will be good.

  • Comment Link Guest Thursday, 12 January 2012 11:17 posted by Guest

    I don't agree with this list: I don't agree with this list at all. This goes against all astrological rules. As a Libra.. and an air sign. only fire signs can light my air and fire make some pretty ferocious flames. Cancer being a great Sex match? LOL
    Please! That sign is square Libra And the very WORST FOR LIBRAS. I don't enjoy Cancer at all!
    Id say you missed a very important sex match for us Librans. Aries the Ram. The mixing of Venus and Mars creates the most explosive fireworks in the bedroom.

  • Comment Link Guest Saturday, 24 December 2011 11:29 posted by Guest

    Cancer woman and Leo man- HELL YEAH: I'm a Cancer woman whose been with a Lion for 8 years, and we still got it going on...the chemistry between us is explosive to this day

  • Comment Link Guest Thursday, 22 December 2011 16:16 posted by Guest

    Im a 19 year old lleo woman: Im a 19 year old lleo woman and have been with my libra man for over three years .. Alsoy grandmother is a Leo woman and has been with my grandfather, a libra man for 58 years

  • Comment Link Guest Sunday, 11 December 2011 17:07 posted by Guest

    Leo Woman & Libra Man. How Could You Forget?: You forgot to add Leo Woman and Libra Man! Very Very Amazing chemistry. Especially sexually!

  • Comment Link Guest Wednesday, 07 December 2011 12:25 posted by Guest

    im a scorpio woman involved with a cancer male: omg....the sex with my cancer boyfriend is beyond my imagination..he is a strong very well endowed man that have me putting major scratches on his back..we go all night....mmmmm love cancers

  • Comment Link Guest Wednesday, 07 December 2011 10:37 posted by Guest

    I am a Cancer woman with a: I am a Cancer woman with a Leo man, number 6 on this list. And I had to tell you that it is the most amazing sex I have ever had. If your a Cancer ladies...go find you a Leo. He is king of the jungle, King of your heart and a true King in the bedroom. Closest thing to Nirvana I have ever been to. Yowza!

  • Comment Link Guest Sunday, 13 November 2011 00:01 posted by Guest

    YES!: But I am a Virgo woman with a moon in scorpio, and my sex is always the kinkiest- scorpios are so hot in bed though they just bring the inside out!

  • Comment Link Guest Saturday, 12 November 2011 23:59 posted by Guest

    Haha I know an aries woman: Haha I know an aries woman with a scorpio man and the sex is the only reason they work(ed)...But then again the only good scorpio male is the one's on the cusp of libra...any scorpio man in the month of novenmber are mostly assholes.

  • Comment Link Guest Wednesday, 02 November 2011 22:01 posted by Guest

    SCORPIO WOMEN WITH PISES OR CANSER?: IM A SCORPIO WOMEN.. I LOST IT TO AN ARIES terrrible!! I had da best relationship with PICESS bombb sexx &we jus had a great connection;), but we broke up like 8 months ago & right now i have a canser man & his confussing but when we are having sex i just have that connection. He evn felt it. His such a sweetheart. Gives it to meh like PISES Lol. I miss pises though:(??im confused

  • Comment Link Guest Wednesday, 19 October 2011 03:40 posted by Guest

    Leo woman: There aren't any Leo woman in this list. It must be wrong. Rude.

  • Comment Link Guest Tuesday, 18 October 2011 16:47 posted by Guest

    ARIES WOMAN AND SCORPIO MAN: I'm surprised that this combo is listed. I'm an Aries and my husband is a Scorpio and we've had the worst marriage ever. We are getting divorced. I will, from now on, stay as far away from Scorpio men as I possibly can. No offense to any other Scorpio males. I just find that the attributes are "right on", and I just don't jive with them.

  • Comment Link Guest Thursday, 06 October 2011 21:39 posted by Guest

    Virgo Woman and Scorpio Man: Virgo Woman and Scorpio Man is NOT listed in your Top 10 matches!

    They're an extremely intense couple, but may have some problems in the sex department, because Scorpio rules sex while Virgo rules work.

  • Comment Link Guest Saturday, 03 September 2011 20:03 posted by Guest

    youre missing pisces women !!! : you're missing pisces women from your list, whom are known for their infamous seductive qualities. Also, look into the chemistry match between a pisces woman and cancer man. WOW! i can attest to the explosive sexual attraction between the two and even more so than a pisces female and scorpio male.

  • Comment Link Guest Saturday, 03 September 2011 20:02 posted by Guest

    youre missing pisces women !!! : you're missing pisces women from your list, whom are known for their infamous seductive qualities. Also, look into the chemistry match between a pisces woman and cancer man. WOW! i can attest to the explosive sexual attraction between the two and even more so than a pisces female and scorpio male.

  • Comment Link Guest Saturday, 20 August 2011 10:20 posted by Guest

    agreed!: agreed!

  • Comment Link Guest Wednesday, 29 June 2011 05:33 posted by Guest

    #1 scorp & taurus.... do I: #1 scorp & taurus.... do I need to say more?!! ;) I'm a Taurus girl & have always had the best time with Scorpio guys! My oh my... how sparks fly!! ;)

  • Comment Link Guest Monday, 30 May 2011 01:59 posted by Guest

    One of the very, very best: One of the very, very best love matches is Cancer woman and Pisces man. If they're walking, everyone notices them. Sparkling, emotional and psychic together. And sex is telepathic.

  • Comment Link Guest Sunday, 22 May 2011 01:20 posted by Guest

    Number eight?!: My husband and I are number eight on the list, but even our conversations and foreplay are much more than this list can ever reveal! ;)

  • Comment Link Guest Sunday, 22 May 2011 01:18 posted by Guest

    My husband and I are number: My husband and I are number eight on the list, but even our conversations and foreplay are much more than this list can ever reveal! ;)

  • Comment Link Guest Wednesday, 04 May 2011 19:17 posted by Guest

    Pisces Women aren't listed in: Pisces Women aren't listed in any combination and that surprises me, maybe tho the world doesn't know what happens when Capricorn man meets Pisces woman!

  • Comment Link Guest Thursday, 13 May 2010 06:20 posted by Guest

    The List: Me and my girl are number 2 on the list, but I beg to differ! LOL