It is nearly midnight. My new, ever-so-slightly-used husband is sleeping next to me. I can hear the dog snoring and the house is totally quiet except for the occasional outburst from my 20 year old who is in the kitchen playing…

Coming out of an abusive relationship of any sort is not easy. It can take years of counseling, reprogramming, and struggle to break the old habits and ways of thinking. Although some narcissists are quite physically abusive it…

I am a big believer in self-help books. I have an entire library of them that contains everything from how to diagnose a medical condition to how to fix your marriage – especially how to fix your marriage. When I was…

Over the past weeks it has become glaringly obvious to me that I have been trying to find myself – and failing miserably I want you to know. It seems that I am trying to recreate the live I had before the divorce, sans the…

As if it isn’t difficult enough to make the decision to divorce a narcissist, walk through the nightmare, and begin the healing process there will come a point when someone will look at you quizzically and say, “So if it was…