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Everyone has some form of baggage from a relationship or a nasty break up or divorce. Without being insensitive, if we are really committed to our next relationship working beautifully, we need to purge that baggage, or manage it.Before we can do…

The Divorcee's Christmas list

Friday, 16 December 2011 07:45
Christmas is going to be rough if it's your first since the breakup. But the truth is that you can survive regardless of whether your STBX is living in the same house or whether they are off partying with their personal version of NEXT. Here are…
Consider that instead of biding your time to get over your divorce or waiting for ‘time to heal all wounds’, you could use the intense force of this divorce and change in your life to your advantage. Ilya Prigogine, …

Let's Get Over Divorce!

Thursday, 16 December 2010 08:53
Healing a broken heart and getting over your break up means you have to build a new future, but it's important to remember that you also need a new relationship with the past. Here are 15 tips help you heal from your divorce:Make a YOU Journal…
This group relates to women who are going through or had major surgery.  Mine is an ilieostomy (complete removal of large and part of small intestine, so I wear a ostomy bag 24/7). Or it can be women who have lost a breast …
I noticed on the profile section there isn't really a way to post a site that you maintain, and some of the women on the site are entrepreneurs or career women.  Seems like a disconnect to me, especially when so many of us may be able to help the…
What DO YOU do when your child support does not cover everything? I think perhaps the more important question to start with is what is child support supposed to cover? Some people are of the school that child support should include ...

Post Divorce Stress Disorder Handbook

Sunday, 05 December 2010 09:50
There are lot of things that I keep to myself. A lot of aspects of divorce that I just don’t mention even though most of my close friends and readers are aware of the last 3 years of hell that I and my daughter, Elf Princess, have been…
I'm seriously considering this arrangement with my ex boyfriend. We were together 7 and a half months. We get along well. We're friends. He's a good guy, but I know it could never be a long term thing with us. It's just not right, you know? I never …
Are you a parent facing divorce or separation? Transitioning beyond divorce? Coping with post-divorce parenting? We're parents who know that the decisions we make will ultimately affect the well-being of our children -- not only in the months…

A Divorce Checklist For Women

Friday, 12 November 2010 07:47
A new member to the social network recently posted her first blog explaining she was just beginning her divorce and asked for help and advice from the other women on the site.The following divorce checklist was posted &

The Shiny Dime Gets Dull Eventually!!!

Thursday, 11 November 2010 04:51
I believe no real happiness can ever come from two people giving into selfish lust and passion and destroying an entire family.Once the pain seems to have subsided and everyone seems to be okay with the new arrangement of your ex-husband, his…
I don't know what it was like for any of you that found yourselves married to a cheater, but for me, the nights I sensed or knew my now ex-husband was out cheating were the most tortuous moments of my marriage.
This group is for divorced and divorcing women to celebrate themselves and each other to find and provide uplifting support and share experiences online and offline.  Share suggestions for fun places to meet up with a…
One truth that always seems to show up in life has to do with self-sabotage. When we're faced with challenges, it's quite common to find ourselves sabotaging our best efforts. This is primarily due to fear, insecurity,…
This is a group for all of us to post the quotes that make us feel good; from spirtual, inspirational, and funny things that make laugh to things that make you go ..." Huh.."   …

OMG, My STBXH's OW Posted On His FB Page

Wednesday, 03 November 2010 02:29
STBXH, Wasband, OW, Himbo? Who knew online divorce slang was becoming such a growing second language?  The conversational slang, acronyms and initialisms around divorce used in blogs, emails, and…
Not only can divorce tear apart lives and families, but it often contributes to a personal crisis of faith. Birthed out of my own personal experience as a Minister going through divorce, I know the pain, confusion, shame and isolation that can…
Hiya everyone! I've formed this group for all of us to share the key things we've learned through our divorce: those words of eternal wisdom to pass onto other women, those kernels of knowledge we wish we knew when starting down the path of…
Two years ago, my husband came to me and told me he had been having an affair, for a year and a half. I was completely blindsided and numb with shock.  No, our marriage hadn't been perfect, is anyone's? He was begging forgiveness, and wanted to…