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No one likes us to be sad, and we don't want to be person who shares sadness with those we love, or with anyone, and least of all with ourselves.  But it is your job not to waste another moment of your precious precious life on being sad and…
I like the holidays. I know that to declare this is a little like admitting to a room full of academics that I am fond of musicals or romantic comedies. I can see their erudite expressions and feel the disdain: Bosh!But I don’t care if the…

A Walk on the Dark Side

Thursday, 13 December 2012 04:17
Christmas:   There are lights!  Millions of them!  Hannukah is the festival of lights, yet we got nothing on these Christmas folks.  Celebrate the birth of an adorable baby named Jesus!  Look he is in a manger surrounded by super cute animals.…

The Gift That Keeps On Giving

Monday, 24 December 2012 19:01
Twenty precious children and 6 adults were laid to rest at the hands of senseless violence.  We may never get the true reasons or answers as to why this occurred.  Yet, twenty-six special people will not be with us this Christmas.They all woke up, …

Hawt Dawg!!

Thursday, 10 January 2013 05:00
As I mentioned in an earlier post,  I had met someone on match.com, and things were going along pretty well with M and myself.  I was amazed at how much we had in common.  We both liked sauerkraut on our hot dogs and anchovies on our pizzas.  I…

It's Howdy Doody Time

Friday, 28 December 2012 10:41
OMG every night I go to bed and pray..,"Please G-d, let low rise skinny jeans NOT be the trend for Fall. Please.  And I know you're really busy, what with the the loss of New Jersey and all, but I just read that Japan is beginning to recover from…

The Season Of Change

Tuesday, 01 January 2013 09:55
The season of change is here.  Yes, a new year brings so many thoughts to mind.  You review all of the challenges you faced.  You review the hurt, heartache and pain you endured.  Perhaps your season started as a gentle rain which turned into a…

Starting Over After Divorce

Wednesday, 02 January 2013 09:04
I knew it would take me a year to feel myself again, and it’s been almost exactly that.  I feel happy.  I feel relieved.  I’ve been released from his darkness and now live in my light.  I’m single with no immediate plans to change that,…

Stay Off The Sauce

Thursday, 24 January 2013 09:05
We were about to take a major step towards solidifying this new found union, spending a weekend away, together in a hotel.  M had a business trip coming up and invited me to attend a food show with him in Orlando.  Normally the words food and show …

Love Has Many Meanings

Thursday, 14 February 2013 14:01
Happy Love Day to all my Friends! This day is not just for husbands, boyfriends, lovers and romance like society has made it out to be. So that the world feels sorry for those of us who are single and not attached. To me, it is an extra day to tell…

Your Way Of Expression

Wednesday, 06 February 2013 10:26
Ten reasons why he dumped you. Ten reasons why chocolate is better than a man. Ten reasons why Woman Love Bad Boys and Ten Reasons Why Dogs and Men are the same.  It's these particular topics that have creating an online traffic scramble,…

A Letter to Myself

Friday, 08 February 2013 09:46
It is not your fault.  There is nothing you could have done to keep him from cheating or to save your marriage.  It takes two people to make a marriage work. And he quite simply wasn't interested.  His cheating is not about you, but about…
I've noticed recently that there is a rather common concern among women going through divorce, and a significant fear, of litigation or, to use the more common term, a "divorce trial." So I thought perhaps it would be helpful if one of us who…

Career and Pursuits Post-Divorce

Thursday, 21 February 2013 04:31

Health and Body through Divorce

Thursday, 21 February 2013 04:27

Mind and Spirit through Divorce

Thursday, 21 February 2013 04:26

Leisure and Fun Post-Divorce

Friday, 23 January 2009 06:55

Sex and Dating Post-Divorce

Friday, 23 January 2009 06:55

Kids, Family and Divorce

Thursday, 21 February 2013 04:20

Your Finances and Divorce

Friday, 23 January 2009 06:54