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Tiger Woods hits the front pages, and instead of fans cheering, they’re reeling from his admission of foul play. Gasp! “Powerful men have a higher sex drive,” says one expert; “Men are just wired that way,” says another. “If women don’t want their men to stray, they need to &
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Thursday, 17 December 2009 08:41
There are so many ways in which relationships affect our overall health. Recent studies have shown how coupling can add years to your life, boost your immune system and even help with anxiety and depression. Naturally one might wonder what influence the end of relationship might have on your health and&
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Wednesday, 09 December 2009 09:20
Top 5 male mating myths:1. All the good ones are taken2. A man’s penis has a mind of its own3. All men only want one thing4. Men are dogs5. Good guys are boringSo let's start at the beginning:1. All&
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Tuesday, 01 December 2009 09:25
Here’s an email I got recently:I wanted to thank you also for your story about "presence" that you told at your talk recently at Open Secret Book Store in San Rafael. I had an important experience of that this weekend. I have been contemplating dating a man I met recently who is a &
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Thursday, 19 November 2009 09:31
I heard the most evil thing the other day. My definition of evil is often flexible, lying somewhere in between totally heinous and completely ridiculous. This story falls in there — you decide for yourself.My gal pal told me she read a book this guy wrote (if I had one less&
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Tuesday, 29 September 2009 21:17
So, what am I doing here? This is what went through my mind on my first post-divorce date. And as I went on a few more, I began to wonder how many times I would have to answer the question “So, what’s your story?”  Story? What story?  I didn’t know that &
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Thursday, 06 August 2009 02:06
Sometimes people move away from a marriage as they become involved in a new relationship. Often the new relationship is an affirmation during a vulnerable time that you are lovable, fun, and sexy — contrary to how your spouse is treating you. It can be a chance to act on fantasies that were irresistible to&
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Sunday, 12 July 2009 01:42
There will come a time when these excuses run out — and you will have to decide whether to stay or to go:1. The mobile phone bill goes missing. If lengthy calls to your lover have sent the telephone bill spiralling upwards, the last thing you want is for your&
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Tuesday, 19 May 2009 01:22
I get a lot of reader mail at FocusOnStyle.com — I think that I was born giving advice, but it’s well over a decade that I’ve been problem-solving professionally, and add another one to being in the fashion biz. So when it comes to pining away on&
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Wednesday, 06 May 2009 01:04
I recently got a call from a friend who married right out of college, divorced 10 years after that, and now shares custody of her child with her ex.The call went something like this: "Can you remind me what a dating site is? You've told me about it, but it never mattered before. How do I do&
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Thursday, 05 March 2009 15:50