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So here’s the real deal.  Many of us who have gone through a divorce have also gone through long periods of time without sex.  Yes…I said it.  While I know that there are some relationships for…
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Tuesday, 08 February 2011 07:58
Sex and PrayerI know that it's an uncomfortable thing to think about, the notion that sex and prayer might go together somehow.  When most of us think about prayer, we think about the things we learned in Sunday school - piety, kneeling, showing God guilt and shame and&
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Monday, 29 November 2010 08:27
Dear Maryanne: One of my best friends has been unhealthily obsessed with the same guy for almost four years (we're now seniors in college). They have hooked up intermittently over this time but have never been on a date or spent any platonic time together. He has never displayed any&
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Saturday, 30 October 2010 10:01
I didn't want a divorce. Nope, I wanted my marriage to work no matter what the cost. I invested years of energy trying to keep the marriage humming along. In the end, I discovered that it takes two people who are willing to invest…
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Saturday, 09 October 2010 09:15
Learning how to inner-view effectively is absolutely worth the effort it takes when starting to date again.  It's all about being willing to ask the difficult questions, getting to know someone inside and out, and constantly living the truth that&
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Thursday, 30 September 2010 08:57
You may have already done a lot of the ground work for preparing yourself for a great new mate.  Maybe you've dealt with your past, built up a strong, healthy relationship with yourself, and now it's time to look for someone to share your life with!  This may seem stressful and fill you with anxiety, but&
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Monday, 27 September 2010 07:47
I have a confession to make about one of the First Wives World polls, the one asking how many times a month you have sex now that you're divorced. It seems that I'm part of the majority, the group of women out there getting…
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Wednesday, 08 September 2010 10:15
I wish I didn't have to give this speech. In fact, I wish I could just state the obvious that money and romance don't mix well. Sexual intimacy creates a vulnerable enviroment that prohibits rational thought.In fact, that's kind of my favorite part of a new romance.The mutual willingness to suspend&
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Tuesday, 31 August 2010 19:21
Sex buddies may be an option for divorced women who don't feel like getting emotionally attached.You've been hurt once and now you want to take it slow. You don't want to get emotionally involved but you have sexual needs, so you decide to find "a&
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Monday, 09 August 2010 09:00
I'm big on mantras, and here's one of my favorites: Before having sex, you need to use your HEAD, or else you'll break your HEART.  Notice I said that YOU will break your heart, not someone else.  It seems easy to back up and think before taking the plunge, but when you're near…
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Wednesday, 23 June 2010 08:33