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Smart, attractive, talented women everywhere are falling victim to “The Good Girl" Syndrome. If you have been feeling inhibited — whether it be with regard to your career, relationships, or parenting your kids…
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Wednesday, 01 May 2013 14:42
I've talked in the past about the friendships that need to be cultivated during the divorce process. Now I'm going to talk about girlfriends who are important in their own way but may not be girlfriends who aren't able to offer the kind of support you…
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Friday, 04 February 2011 08:16
My pastor said something recently that really impressed me. He said tell me who your friends are, how you spend your time and what you read and I will tell you who you are.His point — time can be used to enrich and enhance your life or&
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Friday, 03 December 2010 09:22
I go for a bike ride three mornings a week. I enjoy getting out early while the day is still new, and not many people are out. The other morning I was riding along, listening to some "funk sway" on my iPod, when I spotted something in the road ahead. Through a crack in the thick, hard…
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Saturday, 02 October 2010 12:03
Dating is fun and good for you, but the cost can be significant, especially if you factor in the price of childcare.Dating after divorce should be something you look forward to and enjoy. In my case, because I had small children and was embarrassed by how quickly my marriage failed I wasn't ready to&
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Sunday, 09 May 2010 18:00
Like Ram Das says: If you want to see how together you are, go spend some time with your family! This sentiment is particularly apt during the holidays, when emotions run high and painful memories are easily triggered. Especially if things this holiday are different than you would like them to be: i.e. you’re &
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Tuesday, 22 December 2009 14:28
There’s no denying it. Breaking up is oh-so hard to do, especially in today’s 24-hour techno-savvy world of Facebook, Twitter, and post-breakup booty calls arranged via sex-ting. If you’re nursing a broken heart, be sure to avoid these emotionally costly social networking mistakes…br &
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Friday, 25 September 2009 10:37
If you are a woman, you know the virtues of surrounding yourself with girlfriends. From high school through college, a girl knows she needs friends to count on when a crisis arises. The nice thing about crisis in our younger years is that they were easily remedied and friends were always close by. …
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Sunday, 06 September 2009 10:00
Do you ever ignore an opportunity? Or, worse yet, make excuses that keep you from facing fears that can come with an opportunity? I had an opportunity stare me right in the face last week and I found myself making excuses, backing away from it as if it were a threat instead of a gift. We all have our…
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Sunday, 20 January 2013 11:15
I get a lot of reader mail at FocusOnStyle.com — I think that I was born giving advice, but it’s well over a decade that I’ve been problem-solving professionally, and add another one to being in the fashion biz. So when it comes to pining away on&
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Wednesday, 06 May 2009 01:04
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