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Encouraging Words From Your Peers

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We are responsible for our own happiness, no one else.  When you are happy in yourself then everything else will fall in place.  Today I have chosen to forgive my Ex.  I already feel freer than I have in months.  I feel I will have control over my life back because as long as we don't forgive something it controls us.  I hope you take something good from all the community comments today and find that love in your heart and let you spirit soar forward... (read more)

You are okay just as you are.  It's okay to feel messed up, to not know what the future will bring, to feel unsure about your relationship with another person.  If I could give any advice, it would be to love yourself through this process.  Make sure the little child in you knows that the adult in you will not abandon her.  No matter what happens you will be there for her.  You don't have to be "good enough" or "perfect enough" to be loved.  You already are loved and everything is... (read more)

I completely understand. You will make new connections and your limbs will entangle other people.  These new connections will become the backbone of your life.  Your past will not disappear, but will fade into the background.  Hang in there.  It just takes time... (read more)

After ten months, my divorce was finalized on Thursday.  I feel like a real person again, alive again.  I was married for 20 years, and I now realize what a toll the years took on me.  I'm now taking steps each day to get my life back... (read more)

This site has given me so much support and strength.  I don't know how to say thank you to all of you.  Even the pain of this is less when you know someone is there thinking of you.  I wish everyone the very best, and remember that we are stronger than we think, and much stronger than they... (read more)