You are still in the great abyss. You are on step one: get divorced. You are sitting around waiting, but next year you will get things done. This year is the year that I like to call "the lost year." Just regroup every day and try and cross things off your list. You don't need to be efficient and perfect. Shoot for good enough. You can be perfect and efficient sometime later. Putting energy into a paycheck is always good. You'll get there when you get there. You'll love tomorrow and tomorrow is tomorrow. Enjoy your show and your "me" time. You are still in the phase where you need to forgive yourself often.