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Letting go just takes time. For me missing him (or the fantasy he promised anyway) stopped after about six months. They put on a great mask for us in the beginning and THAT'S what we fell in love with, NOT the real man hiding underneath, cause that guy is selfish. Once it really sinks in that the man you thought he was isn't even real, it'll become easier to let him go. That was just a mask he used to lure you in but he couldn't maintain it long term. You loved him and you committed yourself to him. Loving and missing your husband doesn't make YOU broken or co-dependent or anything else. It makes you a loving and loyal wife. Cut yourself some slack and keep up the good work. You are right where you need to be (even though it hurts like hell right now) and you are doing exactly what you need to do to heal ... (continue reading)

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