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Forgive yourself and try again. No contact helps you to detox from him. You are drawn in for two reasons. 1. You are looking for reasons why it went the way it went, looking for closure, and looking for validation that you did the right thing. You did do the right thing and he will not be apologizing or admitting to any wrongdoing towards you. 2. You have been trying to please him for years. He rewards you every now and then for pleasing him. But for the most part he has demanded attention from you. You are so use to him being the center of your universe that you don't know how to live any other way. Detox from him. Live your life and be happy. Anyone who has lived with a narc knows that they can be very charming. That life with a narc is up and down. The ups don't last long but the ups are exciting. Stop living for the "up". It is addictive. Break the habit and go no contact until you get it right… (continue reading)

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