I'm seriously considering this arrangement with my ex boyfriend. We were together 7 and a half months. We get along well. We're friends. He's a good guy, but I know it could never be a long term thing with us. It's just not right, you know?
I never thought I would consider a FWB thing, but the more I think about it, the more it seems like the perfect situation for me right now! My divorce has been going on for a year and a half (finally coming to an end tomorrow, hopefully!), and I just don't want the drama of a relationship right now!
I have so much that I'm working on in my life, and I've found that getting caught up in a relationship takes me away from those pursuits. I DO, however, miss the sex! So why not be FWBs with my ex boyfriend? I find him attractive, we had good sex, and we are on the same page about what this relationship is.
Plus, I know that he has no STDs, and we've agreed to not have sex with anyone else. Honestly, it feels like a huge weight off of my shoulders! I don't have to worry about the whole relationship thing, but I still get to have good sex! It's the best of both worlds!
Am I crazy? Is this situation a disaster witing to happen? Or is it a dream come true? I'd love to know your thoughts on this. Anyone had experience with this type of situation? Can it work?
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