I thought that this Attornet had some great tips, however I wonder what kids of jobs would be good for a women like me who has been a stay at home mom for like 25 years. Any thoughts?

Being a former PI and the one who was cheated on (yes husband should have known better), you will already know your spouse is cheating if you have that "GUT" feeling....the one thing that will never let you down. It's the feeling you try to get rid of but keeps coming back no matter how hard you try to trust. The signs are real! The "on purpose fight" so the spouse can leave and have his/her validated reasons ( I left because of the way you talk or treat me) Clothing missing then reappearing, money missing and not accounted for, smell if perfume in vehicle, cheater will keep car spray (usually new car smell) in vehicle and easily accessible to rid the perfume smell, underwear (same as with clothing) missing and reappearing, new sex positions, the cheater grooming habits change (usually for the better) and so on..... the other signs to watch out for also include the following: Protective over his/her cell phone Long periods in the bathroom (secret texting) The old stand by "I have to work late" The cheating days are Mondays and Fridays (a weekend day is very rare but will he/her will arrange it if the cheaters lover complains about never seeing the cheater on weekends, unless the lover of the cheater knows he/she is married) The cheater starts complaining about your looks, weights and so on. Comparing you on clothing or suggesting new type of clothing (as he/her will change their taste in clothing as time progresses in the cheating relationship) Calling you around lunch time to see where you are at (working or not) Going to run errands and forgetting to get some of the stuff and having to leave again. You will notice little tid-bits that are not of the normal the cheater will do (and keep doing) I hope this sheds some light on cheaters, they all act and breath the same way. I have been on enough surveillance's to know! I know how anyone feels who is going through this..... You say to yourself " I need to see them in the act or at least see them together.... This might be true, but if you have that "GUT FEELING" I don't think you need to see the act of cheating........it's not pretty and it does hurt! Remember......there is life after the cheater! Good luck and stand strong, you have one life to live as you know it, live it the way you want not the way he/she tells you. The below is for the one who are being cheated on and abused. No more eggs for us I feel the sharp pain Of the black and blue The night has fallen, dinner has passed I look for that shadow Of the hard clinching fist I know the feeling of egg shells underneath my feet He knows I will be silent To keep them in sleep The dawn is now here once again he is awake We take a deep breath and start to relate He says he is sorry with flowers and gifts Will anyone hear me and get us out of this? The dusk is now here how I pray for some peace Dinners on the table Where could he be My ears adjust to the sound of the thunder I see a strange outside my window The lighting is so bright I can't see a thing The stranger just says everything will be ok Three years have passed since he's been away Our life is much better, we don't eat scrambled eggs. Copyright ©2008 (name is withheld, cause it's my name)