


Here’s another story that shows things aren’t always so rosy in religious families. We’ve written a couple of times about the mis-matched ministers, Juanita Bynum and Thomas Weeks.
Well, here’s a story out of Alabama about a pastor whose wife walked out on him and their two kids six months ago. Actually, according to a report in the Mobile Press-Register, Beth Smith is still seeing her children on a regular basis, and sources say she is a good mother.
But in March, she hocked her wedding ring while attending a religious convention in Louisiana and bought a bus ticket to New York without telling her family anything. To say the least, details like that make her sound unstable. She was living in a women’s shelter in New York when authorities finally located her in July and brought her back to Alabama.
Her husband, Rev. Jason Lee Smith, has filed for divorce and it seeking custody of the kids, who are 10 and 7. Beth Smith’s attorney said there was conflict in the marriage and that the couple had grown apart. And he talked about the toll that keeping up appearances can take when you’re married to a religious leader. Indeed, if you start to question the life you’re living, that’s a difficult place to be. But walking out on your family? She’s going to have a tough time explaining that away.
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Being in a religious family
I think too often we in society want to believe that ministers and pastors are somehow immune from the strife and struggles the rest of us go through. We want to believe they are somehow "perfect", because after all, isn't it their job to lead the faithful, so they must have it right. Right? Being a PK (preacher's kid), I can tell you that it just isn't so. My parents are good, loving, committed people. But they are people, with their own problems and struggles. While I understand the pressures of living in the church community "fish bowl" (I was of course supposed to behave all the time, and be stellar at anything I did), I don't understand walking out on your family as the solution. It is my hope that the community that she felt held her under a microscope will embrace her and help her with her obvious needs. If nothing else, for the sake of the children. After all, that is what the church is called to do.
It must be difficult to
It must be difficult to practice what you preach. We are all infallible and we all make mistakes whether we are religious or not.
CM
leaving your children
I would like to hope she had a nervous breakdown as I could never understand a women leaving her children unless something drastic went wrong in her head. If this is the case, get her help, and make sure before she visits those kids she's alright. As we know from watching the news, parents who are distressed have been known to hurt their famillies and that would e my concern..
I'm sorry our world is so messed up and filled with preconceived ideas of perfection... People are people in every walk of life.
Dorothy from grammology
call your grandma