Don't isolate yourself — Don't try to get the children to choose sides — Don't neglect your health — Don't go on a spending spree...

Not sure I totally agree with the last one, but this very insightful list with detailed explanations came from a terrific Health site out of South Africa.

Any additions to the list?

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