When laying your marriage to rest, what could be more handy than a perfect little ring sized coffin? A New York woman thought so, and now for $29.95 you can have one of your very own.

Don't isolate yourself — Don't try to get the children to choose sides — Don't neglect your health — Don't go on a spending spree...

Not sure I totally agree with the last one, but this very insightful list with detailed explanations came from a terrific Health site out of South Africa.

Any additions to the list?

Whether by choice, death, divorce or abandonment, finally a book that speaks in an encouraging, life-affirming manner to single moms. Read about the 100 secrets of successful single motherhood, then come back and tell us your thoughts, your experiences and advice.

Actress Scarlett Johansson says: "I'm not a poor me kind of person, but certain cards were dealt to me, and I had to be strong. The actual separation wasn't hard, but things that come with divorce are difficult. But those things make you to be the person you are. I've always been determined, ever since I was a little girl."

If you're feeling unlucky in love, or perplexed why cupid can't seem to straighten his aim and plant one on you, or even worse, you find yourself desperately throwing yourself in front of every arrow that whizzes by you, but to no avail, then you should read this latest report and start turning your love luck around!

I know we did a similar poll on the site recently, but really — what about a man would most make you want to throw yourself in front of cupid's arrow?

Dealing with the emotional weight of divorce can be incredibly overwhelming even for the strongest survivor. But it's effects are exaggerated even more when you don't have the right information. Add to that the financial burdens incurred, and it's enough to cause any number of personal meltdowns. Information is key to dealing with any kind of fear, worry or stress. If you're armed with the right information, you can often deal with things more intelligently and effectively and avoid the stress and anxiety that comes with the unknown. Arm yourself and find out more on Dealing with the Financial Impact of Divorce.

The key to any healthy situation, whether it's with love, friendships, or children, is communication. Bad communication directly leads to instant breakdown of any relationship.

But when it comes to children and the process of understanding divorce, it's important to give them the emotional tools to understand what's occuring to them so they can build their own healthy life... because as lost as you may feel going through it, they will most likely feel even more so.

We've all carried it around at one point or another, and when we do, emotional baggage has a way of affecting every aspect of our lives, with the decisions we make in our business, our friendships and any future relationships. In their groundbreaking book, Moving On, Russell Friedman and John W. James speak honestly about how to continue on past failed relationships so you can open yourself up to love again. Written with honesty, wit, and humility, this book does more than examine loss: it provides a practical roadmap to a better life.

I'm sure there are plenty of you out there who at one point or another have “made the first move." For some it seems a cinch; you’re confidant, self-assured, and deflect rejection like steel with a bullet. For others, the process leads to jellied knees and rapid heart beats. Even a simple “hi” comes out sounding like a garbled mess.

If you haven’t been out there dating in a while, and you’re looking to sharpen your skills, and maybe you're thinking it’s time to start making the move, Maggie Kim has broken down the process and has some tips. Make your move ... just let us know how it goes ~
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