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tips on weathering the economic crisis

Guest — Sun, 30 Nov 2008 21:24:31 -0500

just wnated to say thanks for the efforts on providing tips to tighten the belt-- found them very helpful

You know what you are great at by now...

Guest — Sun, 30 Nov 2008 09:27:29 -0500

Take a pice of paper- draw a line down the middle...on the left write all the things you have been brilliant at all these years and on the right the things you are horrible at...put a line across the bottom and write your dreams....no time to waste...see which things on the left can ttraslate to making your dreams come true...then go...be creative...upgrade your skills if need be...make yourself a biography with all your best accomplishments and attributes...get a business card that has your name and phone number and email....make sure you are computer literate...then go! At the very least get out now during the holidays when people are hiring just to get your feet wet and meet some new people.

finances

Guest — Fri, 21 Nov 2008 22:39:08 -0500

You forgot to mention you may also have to work for a longer period of time...unless that is that I win the lottery this friday..mega is 80 million boy would I make some people unhappy. Great article..Dorothy from grammology http://grammology.com

How do you know when your spouse is cheating?

Guest — Sun, 02 Nov 2008 23:10:00 -0500

Being a former PI and the one who was cheated on (yes husband should have known better), you will already know your spouse is cheating if you have that "GUT" feeling....the one thing that will never let you down. It's the feeling you try to get rid of but keeps coming back no matter how hard you try to trust. The signs are real! The "on purpose fight" so the spouse can leave and have his/her validated reasons ( I left because of the way you talk or treat me) Clothing missing then reappearing, money missing and not accounted for, smell if perfume in vehicle, cheater will keep car spray (usually new car smell) in vehicle and easily accessible to rid the perfume smell, underwear (same as with clothing) missing and reappearing, new sex positions, the cheater grooming habits change (usually for the better) and so on..... the other signs to watch out for also include the following: Protective over his/her cell phone Long periods in the bathroom (secret texting) The old stand by "I have to work late" The cheating days are Mondays and Fridays (a weekend day is very rare but will he/her will arrange it if the cheaters lover complains about never seeing the cheater on weekends, unless the lover of the cheater knows he/she is married) The cheater starts complaining about your looks, weights and so on. Comparing you on clothing or suggesting new type of clothing (as he/her will change their taste in clothing as time progresses in the cheating relationship) Calling you around lunch time to see where you are at (working or not) Going to run errands and forgetting to get some of the stuff and having to leave again. You will notice little tid-bits that are not of the normal the cheater will do (and keep doing) I hope this sheds some light on cheaters, they all act and breath the same way. I have been on enough surveillance's to know! I know how anyone feels who is going through this..... You say to yourself " I need to see them in the act or at least see them together.... This might be true, but if you have that "GUT FEELING" I don't think you need to see the act of cheating........it's not pretty and it does hurt! Remember......there is life after the cheater! Good luck and stand strong, you have one life to live as you know it, live it the way you want not the way he/she tells you. The below is for the one who are being cheated on and abused. No more eggs for us I feel the sharp pain Of the black and blue The night has fallen, dinner has passed I look for that shadow Of the hard clinching fist I know the feeling of egg shells underneath my feet He knows I will be silent To keep them in sleep The dawn is now here once again he is awake We take a deep breath and start to relate He says he is sorry with flowers and gifts Will anyone hear me and get us out of this? The dusk is now here how I pray for some peace Dinners on the table Where could he be My ears adjust to the sound of the thunder I see a strange outside my window The lighting is so bright I can't see a thing The stranger just says everything will be ok Three years have passed since he's been away Our life is much better, we don't eat scrambled eggs. Copyright ©2008 (name is withheld, cause it's my name)

this video, tips on re-entering the workplace afetr a divorce

Guest — Tue, 28 Oct 2008 09:27:47 -0400

I thought that this Attornet had some great tips, however I wonder what kids of jobs would be good for a women like me who has been a stay at home mom for like 25 years. Any thoughts?

I hope he is paying a crapload of child support!

Guest — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 23:21:41 -0400

He needs to feel the pain that he put the rest of the country in. Bradley is a bad man.

back to work post divorce

Guest — Wed, 08 Oct 2008 17:32:49 -0400

I'm just now entering the workforce again after having been married and out of it for well over five years. It's scary. These tips will help, but I'd love more thoughts from people. ??

Nobody wants "The Todd" as a husband...

Guest — Tue, 07 Oct 2008 15:52:43 -0400

any more than we want the other "palin" as VP. Oh, there you go again there FDubyaDubya, saying all these gosh darn tootin' things that Main Street may actually go on up and get behind. Them things that ole Maverick Mel, Soccer Susan, Pistol-packing Pete, Crack-Addled Cynthia and Polar Bear Strangling Paticia - may dog-gone believe make a marriage work. Say it isn't so *wink**wink*. At the very least we know "The Todd" knows how to Drill, Baby, Drill!!

This woman cannot teach us anything but how to lie with a smile.

Guest — Tue, 07 Oct 2008 13:21:39 -0400

The fact is that Todd Palin has always worked behind the scenes as her advisor. An unelected presence guiding the governance of a state. The sexist cries fall flat when it's clear this is a woman who enjoys attacking and then hiding behind her pumps and lipstick. Hardly a role model for any woman. This is a ridiculous article, with a stupid premise. And that's the doggone truth.

Divorce Fallout Shadows Palin’s Campaign

Guest — Mon, 06 Oct 2008 16:40:31 -0400

Divorce can have an interesting fall out. Even if you were not the person getting divorced emotions run high and things will be said and done that can't be taken back. This seems to be one of those times in Palin's case. I'm sure her heart was in the right place but the way she went about it was all wrong...this asks the question; do we want someone in the second highest office in the country with this kind of emotional decision making in her past...and possibly our future? I know I don't but that is yet another reason why I WON'T be voting for her or her running mate come November.

job serach for women post-divorce

Guest — Mon, 06 Oct 2008 10:36:24 -0400

I have a gaping hole on my resume because of my failed marriage. I've been stuggling to get back into the work force, having given up a higher level job just before marrying and having children. I don't know where to turn. Any suggestions?

She is a bar hag, tattoed ho.

Guest — Mon, 29 Sep 2008 12:14:49 -0400

Simply put this is another bi-polar borderline personality chick. Hart is truly fortunate to be rid of her and to not have children with this worthless sack of meat.

Women Earn Less Than Men

Guest — Sat, 27 Sep 2008 15:06:59 -0400

Women do earn less than men, but I agree with Dr. Warren Farrell ... it's because we're programmed to make different life decisions. I mean programmed in the sense that our DNA dictates certain decisions in life. There's no way around it.

Sadly, I'm not surprised

Guest — Fri, 26 Sep 2008 14:46:40 -0400

I don't think it counts because she wasn't a co-star in the reality show like say "Meet the Barkers." This was a couple I always thought were a "real" couple and two people who truly did love each other. Another example of how the limelight tends to burn out quickly when involved in relationships. I admire her for recognizing it wasn't what she wanted anymore and made the decision. She is an aggressive, no holds barred woman who knows what she wants, and therefore will always get it or never stop until she has it. I don't worry about her, she 's got it all covered.

Career to Blame for Pink's Divorce

Guest — Fri, 26 Sep 2008 12:34:00 -0400

I'm so sad to see Pink divorce Carey Hart. I'm a big fan and I think she is so talked. I'm sad but I'm not surprised. Hollywood seems to make it very hard to keep a relationship alive. The paparazzi follow these celebs around constantly and the schedules performers have can be extremely grueling. But at least she didn't go the reality TV route like Hulk Hogan But then again Hart was on "The Surreal Life", does that count?