http://www.firstwivesworld.com Comments for "Video" en http://www.firstwivesworld.com/community/house-bloggers/sarah-farthing/what-mom-thinks#comment-5452 This certainly breaks open the "mother-in-law" stereotype. I wonder if this will ring true years down the road or if this relationship will fade after papers are signed. Is your husband as committed as the two of you seem to be? Well, whatever happens, it certainly is nice to hear that a mother-in-law can be as dear as your mom. Tue, 13 May 2008 23:13:19 -0400 Guest comment 5452 at http://www.firstwivesworld.com http://www.firstwivesworld.com/community/house-bloggers/sarah-farthing/what-mom-thinks#comment-5449 Such a great Mom you have. Now I can see where you get it from :) Tue, 13 May 2008 14:57:27 -0400 Guest comment 5449 at http://www.firstwivesworld.com http://www.firstwivesworld.com/about-us/press/in-the-media/mothers-day-and-step-moms#comment-5445 started a wives club myself in westchester county, so helpful, divorce is an epidemic Mon, 12 May 2008 22:03:32 -0400 Guest comment 5445 at http://www.firstwivesworld.com http://www.firstwivesworld.com/community/house-bloggers/sarah-farthing/yes-im-talking-you-mom#comment-5410 do you mind if I send this to my mom as well? So sweet! Fri, 09 May 2008 13:52:22 -0400 Guest comment 5410 at http://www.firstwivesworld.com http://www.firstwivesworld.com/community/house-bloggers/sarah-farthing/derailed#comment-5391 Yes, I always try to emulate my favorite sci-fi heroes in the worst of times. My Chewie outfit is at the dry-cleaners though. To guest and Wanda - I wish wine worked for me! (Due to an alcohol allergy, I have to steer clear.) I did eat a lot of cheese though. And bags full of frozen berries... while watching Slings and Arrows and the first season of The Tudors. Seeing poor Anne Boleyn sure does give me perspective on how easy my life actually is! Thu, 08 May 2008 11:41:29 -0400 Sarah Farthing comment 5391 at http://www.firstwivesworld.com http://www.firstwivesworld.com/community/house-bloggers/sarah-farthing/derailed#comment-5365 Actually, it was my friend who said that -- she loves cheetohs, and wrote a novel where her heroine got bogged down and floated in wine and cheetohs for a period of time -- sometimes you gotta slouch. Wed, 07 May 2008 16:55:55 -0400 Wanda Woodard comment 5365 at http://www.firstwivesworld.com http://www.firstwivesworld.com/community/house-bloggers/sarah-farthing/derailed#comment-5340 Where you just want to slouch around all day. Good for you for taking one for yourself. It's not like the world can't rotate without you for a while. I suggest a bottle of wine and some cheesecake. A bath doesn't hurt either. Tue, 06 May 2008 19:02:43 -0400 Guest comment 5340 at http://www.firstwivesworld.com http://www.firstwivesworld.com/community/house-bloggers/sarah-farthing/derailed#comment-5327 Love you rocking the Obi Wan look! It makes you look like the zen center of the maelstrom of your life. And yet as always your ingenuity shines thru - ironing board as desk! Girl, that is slap your mama smart!! Keep on trucking and...May the Force be with you...always. xo QotU Tue, 06 May 2008 13:27:27 -0400 Guest comment 5327 at http://www.firstwivesworld.com http://www.firstwivesworld.com/community/the-d-word/the-d-word/the-d-word-changing-names#comment-5309 My ex and younger wife would LOVE it if I changed my name. For some reason the new wife doesn't want to share the name with me! Since it has been my name for over 20 years (I'm kinda used to it), I've decided to keep it! If it annoys them, well thats an added benefit! Mon, 05 May 2008 13:38:01 -0400 uscgurl comment 5309 at http://www.firstwivesworld.com http://www.firstwivesworld.com/community/house-bloggers/sarah-farthing/too-in-time#comment-5297 for your words. They made me feel happier this morning. Sun, 04 May 2008 06:49:29 -0400 Sarah Farthing comment 5297 at http://www.firstwivesworld.com http://www.firstwivesworld.com/community/house-bloggers/sarah-farthing/too-in-time#comment-5292 watching your videos heip me so much because he lets me know Im not the only one with these feelings.But we are never alone all we have to do is call on God.Just keep hanging on. Sat, 03 May 2008 17:58:40 -0400 Guest comment 5292 at http://www.firstwivesworld.com http://www.firstwivesworld.com/resource/debbie-does-divorce/debbie-nigro/finding-mr-adequate#comment-5274 i am a big fan of susan silver - love here old school wit - you go girl Fri, 02 May 2008 00:53:40 -0400 Guest comment 5274 at http://www.firstwivesworld.com http://www.firstwivesworld.com/community/house-bloggers/sarah-farthing/too-in-time#comment-5268 This I've learned. No matter how tough a day I've had, I've gotten through all my BAD days by having this perspective. It may seem simple, but it's worked for me :) Thu, 01 May 2008 16:08:19 -0400 Guest comment 5268 at http://www.firstwivesworld.com http://www.firstwivesworld.com/community/house-bloggers/sarah-farthing/too-in-time#comment-5265 you also want to laugh--a crazy maniacal laugh--like, how much more can the universe pile on me? but you're afraid to ask because the universe might not have a sense of humor. so, hang in there. Thu, 01 May 2008 13:37:16 -0400 Guest comment 5265 at http://www.firstwivesworld.com http://www.firstwivesworld.com/resource/debbie-does-divorce/debbie-nigro/getting-the-support-you-need#comment-5245 I agree with Elizabeth, but we should not look to take our ex's to the cleaners to support a false or unrealistic lifestyle. I'm currently going through a divorce and have been a housewife for over 10 year. I have 4 kids under 18. We currently live in CA. Post the OSC meeting I have been awarded very good terms for child support, alimony, and bonuses. Unfortunately, my ex-husband make out as well...sort of an 75/25 split on income ( he makes a good salary). Although I am greatful for the income and pending asset division, I do feel a bit sorry for his new and future financial sitiuation, especially around taxes. Don't get me wrong, I will always do what's in the best interest of my kids and I will not return any of the money I'm receiving. That said, the court judgement was extremely favorable to me vs. my ex. Hopefully, I won't get kciked off the website for being honest. Wed, 30 Apr 2008 11:46:07 -0400 Guest comment 5245 at http://www.firstwivesworld.com