Custody

Guest — Sat, 10 Nov 2007 06:36:25 -0500

Taylor, I always hurt when I read about the ignorance of a parent causing trouble just to delude the real issues..Someday there may be a place you can go and understand your legal rights and they can advice and help for free. Work with us, before the lawyer and with them.. As this is so terrible and unfair, ultimately adversely affecting the children who suffer the most.

Debbie is on the right track here, giving us a united voice in these serious issues. Maybe sometime soon, someone reading these horrifying stories will step up to the plate to help..

My thoughts are with you, and my gratitude for sharing this so we all can know and feel what can happen to families during a divorce proceeding.

Dorothy from grammology
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The Grueling Process Continues

Taylor Raine — Fri, 09 Nov 2007 17:30:00 -0500

My ex filed another emergency motion for custody — like the first status conference didn't give him enough answers? We have in paper the visitation schedule, which he seems to not be pleased with. He drops the kids off late almost on every exchange day. He's taking them out of school early — which is a big no-no — and yet, he wants me to look like the bad guy?

Friends have told me that it seems as though my ex is out to "right a wronged child". Granted, he is ten years older than me, so this could be a complex issue that he has. I just want out. I want to have my own personal space. I want to be able to live harmoniously with the personal boundaries I've set. I want my children to live peacefully.

Apparently, this is too much to ask. I'm still sitting without any child support payments. I get new motions for anything and everything filed almost weekly. I owe another $5,000 to my attorney to replenish my retainer, and we've not even really started working on our dissolution of marriage yet. We're still just fighting custody upheavals.

The good news is that we finally have a guardian ad litem assigned to the case, and they will be looking out for the children's best interests. I surely hope they get to know my children quickly and see that I have always been providing for them wholeheartedly. This process is grueling and not at all fair.

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Custody

The Grueling Process Continues