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 <description>&lt;p&gt;It seems the tide may be turning, but I want to be careful not to rock the boat — or do I? I have recently been given the keys to a friend&#039;s apartment in New York City. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;My friend Wendy is taking advantage of the summer to visit with her family in North Carolina, before the next semester starts in the fall. This couldn&#039;t have happened at a better time for me, as I needed to be closer to the city than my upstate digs would allow. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;During the past week, I actually was called in for several interviews. Ordinarily, interviews are not on my list of favorite things to do. But being that things are so tight with the economy, I am happy to be at the point where I am getting callbacks.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;But now I am faced with a dilemma.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;After one four-hour marathon interview, I was offered a job.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;After a half-marathon, two hour interview, I was not offered a job, but am optimistic about my chances.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;What I don&#039;t like is the wait — two to three weeks while they interview the remaining candidates.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Do I take the job offered to me, or do I wait to see if I am &amp;quot;the right fit&amp;quot; for the other organization&#039;s program. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Do I go for the job that is something I really want to do? Or do I go for the job that would offer me a definite paycheck?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Decisions, decisions...&lt;/p&gt;</description>
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 <pubDate>Mon, 21 Jul 2008 12:24:48 -0400</pubDate>
 <dc:creator>Akillah Wali</dc:creator>
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