http://www.firstwivesworld.com/community/house-bloggers/akillah-wali/dating-problem-no-way Comments for "Dating Problem? No Way" en http://www.firstwivesworld.com/community/house-bloggers/akillah-wali/dating-problem-no-way <p>What does it mean to be single? I was recently asked this question by a girlfriend of mine who had just started seeing a new guy. I am reluctant to even call it “dating,” as they met at a friend’s shindig, and went out only one other time, with plans to go out again. As luck would have it, she has also finally managed to catch the eye of another gentleman (feast or famine, right?), a guy she’s been interested in for some time. </p><p>“Is it OK to tell the other guy I’m single?” she asked me. “And is it even okay to go out with the other guy?” </p><p>My answers to her questions were “yes” and “yes.” </p><p>As a woman who has the great fortune to have two very nice guys interested in her, and the bad luck that they should have come around at the same time, she should definitely, in my opinion, explore her options. </p><p>Although they are great guys, there is no guarantee that they are both great – for her. It’s very much like buying a car – you test-drive it before paying and taking it home. </p><p>While I know that I don’t have the savvy – or the energy – to pull off dating more than one man at a time, I don’t begrudge another woman for considering all of her options.</p> http://www.firstwivesworld.com/community/house-bloggers/akillah-wali/dating-problem-no-way#comments dating single women two men Sun, 06 Jul 2008 19:09:18 -0400 Akillah Wali 7306 at http://www.firstwivesworld.com