Holiday-daters

Guest — Thu, 26 Jun 2008 20:59:49 -0400

You are a little scared to be alone during the holidays, so you pick a semi-acceptable man to fill the void for you at the holiday parties. You get to buy someone a gift for Christmas (or whatever) and also someone to watch all those sappy movies with. The problem comes on January 2nd when you abruptly dump his ass because it suddenly becomes clear that he's a total tool.

Never mind the divorced

Guest — Fri, 20 Jun 2008 08:07:00 -0400

Never mind the divorced dater- many of my friends fall into one of these categories, and they are all single! I have even fallen into many of them as well, depending on my mood!!! CM

Dating Styles of Divorced Women

Debbie Nigro — Wed, 18 Jun 2008 16:22:48 -0400

Dating after divorce can be a wonderful new beginning, but everyone approaches it differently. Below is a list I came up with to describe various divorced gals dating styles I've observed over the years.

Ladies, you will find that you may fit in to more than one category. Some of you will even transition back and forth between categories at any given time. Let me know if I've missed any. Gentlemen, which of these gals have you dated?

Hopefully this will help you understand better who might be sitting across from you the next time, too.

Damaged Daters You don't trust anyone anymore with your heart. You've been burned. You are not so quick to jump back into another relationship, but you go anyway because you think you are supposed to at least try. Your cynical vibes smell defensive and stink up the room. Wear extra perfume.

I Don't Care Daters You are not interested. You're energy is focused elsewhere. You need time to to find out who you are. You go just because someone's very nice but you really don't care, but you don't let him know you don't care. He doesn't pick up you don't care so he calls you again and you go again..even though you don't care.

I Just Want To Sleep With You and Not Really Talk to You Daters Your hormones are swinging and you're going to try and act the way you think some men act, and just use someone for sex. You want this person to treat you like they care about you, even though you don't really care about them. You are loving the fact that you never expect a call, and call them when they least expect it. Woo Hoo!
Sneaky Daters -You don't really want anyone to know who you are dating or where you are going. You go out of your way to find "out of the way" meeting locations and rely heavily on GPS. You are shady with family and friends who suspect you are 'seeing someone" but have no idea who. This can go on for years.

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Holiday-daters

Never mind the divorced

Dating Styles of Divorced Women