It sucks when our kids are

Guest — Sat, 07 Jun 2008 10:09:24 -0400

It sucks when our kids are acting out our "stuff." RBYS

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Guest — Fri, 06 Jun 2008 04:19:43 -0400

I agree that everyone deserves clarity, but most especially you. If you do what feels right to you, your girls will be OK. It may be hard for a while. but it will be OK. What it boils down to, I think, is whether you can respect yourself and your choices. Because if you can, your girls will too. Love. J

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Guest — Wed, 04 Jun 2008 16:53:35 -0400

I left my husband when my daughter was four. Similar things took place. Her dad had very little interaction. To this day, she suffers from the divorce. Tread carefully and I wish you well. There are no pat answers to this problem. My best, Dorothy from grammology remember to call gram www.grammology.com

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Elaina Goodman — Wed, 04 Jun 2008 13:26:25 -0400

You can tell Roxie feels change coming by the crazy way she's been acting.

It started in Arizona last week, but I just chalked it up to the over-tired, over-stimulated chaos of travel. She started having the kind of meltdowns I haven't seen from her since I Sam and split our household in two.

She bit her cousin in the swimming pool at the end of a long day. Biting was her thing for a while, but it's been a couple years since she last bared her teeth.

Her behavior has reverted, though. She's had a rough week. In school Thursday when I was visiting for family day her best friend looked at me and asked, "Why is Roxie acting that way?"

"That way" being out of control, dumping other kids stuff on the floor and laughing.

None of the 16 kindergarteners have seen this side of my baby.

It's been long gone, packed away when we moved.

Thing is, she's super sensitive, she feels every minor shift — and what I think she felt in Phoenix was Daddy wasn't there. Daddy wasn't there and the energy surrounding his absence had little to do with the high cost of tickets.

This kid, I know she could feel my conflict every time I said Sam and I have been scoping out rentals. Would hear the thoughts under my words saying something else.

Saying I don't think we'll be back together by the end of the summer, I think we'll be all the way apart.

This is dragging on too long. For everyone. I need to be all the out or all the way in by the time she starts first grade. Sam needs a direction. He deserves it.

Sometimes I hate myself for keeping everyone in waiting. Sometimes I wish I could close my eyes and make this all disappear. Wake up two years in the future, lessons learned with out having to live through them.

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