Another Life-Changing Moment

Akillah Wali — Sun, 18 May 2008 12:00:00 -0400

Here goes another life-changing moment. Am I ready for it?

Um, survey says: no.

For 13 years, I have been obsessed with the fact that I never completed my undergraduate degree. I always felt as if my life was somewhat incomplete because of this — as if I was half a person, and this, I think, shaped the way I allowed others to treat me, as well as how I treated myself.

Now I am one exam away from completion, with the rest of my life now staring back at me. Problem is, now I have to redefine my entire existence.

Same story, different chapter.

I know that many of us have felt this way at one point in time or another; marriage, divorce, school, etc. All these things change how we view life and view ourselves. Oftentimes, with the same effort as flipping a coin or walking through a door, we go from one extreme to another, and are left to struggle with how to deal with our new situation.

I have seen this side of the coin quite a few times, for different reasons (dropping out of school, entering and leaving the military, marriage, divorce, going back to school, etc.). I will just have to try to remember the tricks of the trade that allowed me to get through these trying times without getting weighted down or losing site of the bigger picture.

Or better yet: without losing my mind.

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