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 <title>thanks for passing that on...</title>
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 <description>&quot;When someone walks away from you, let them walk. Your destiny is never tied to anyone who has left.&quot;  Wow. This is something I needed to hear today. It&#039;s going right on a Post-It by my computer. I hope I can eventually pass it on to someone else who needs it someday... Thanks.</description>
 <pubDate>Sun, 18 May 2008 18:51:38 -0400</pubDate>
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 <description>&lt;p&gt;I carry a
notebook around with me. When I read a sentence I find particularly
beautiful (&amp;quot;her heart a red cup of fierceness tucked among ordinary
things&amp;quot;) or when someone says something particularly hilarious (&amp;quot;I
didn&#039;t hear you because when I walk I hear the music from &lt;i&gt;Peter
and the Wolf&lt;/i&gt; in my head&amp;quot;), or something that resonates in some
way, I write it down. Sometimes one sentence, put together in just
that way brings a little more sense into my world. I like quotes. I
like bits and pieces. I like the way other people string words
together. 

&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;When Jake
called and told me that he didn&#039;t think he&#039;d be back, he was in
China. He said, &amp;quot;I&#039;ve been thinking about it, and I don&#039;t know
if I&#039;ll be coming home at all.&amp;quot;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I have one of
those &amp;quot;quote of the day&amp;quot; widgets on my computer. The day after
that call it said: &amp;quot;When someone walks away from you, let them
walk. Your destiny is never tied to anyone who has left.&amp;quot; &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I don&#039;t
know why it is that if someone else says it, it means something more.
I assume that&#039;s true for all of us. Why else do we clip newspapers?
Quote songs? Read a stranger&#039;s blog on a Web site, for that
matter? &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Sometimes
it&#039;s that someone else has found the words I can&#039;t. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Sometimes
it&#039;s knowing I&#039;m not the only one who feels this way. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Sometimes the
fact that it&#039;s someone else gives the words the credibility I can&#039;t
find in my own head. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;After staring
at it for a while, I wrote it on a Post-It and stuck to it to the
wall by the door. Later, it moved to the bathroom mirror.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.firstwivesworld.com/community/house-bloggers/alice-brooks/notebooks-and-post-its&quot;&gt;read more&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description>
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 <pubDate>Sat, 17 May 2008 10:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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