http://www.firstwivesworld.com/community/vibrant-voices/faith-eggers/men-love-the-chase Comments for "Men Love The Chase" en http://www.firstwivesworld.com/community/vibrant-voices/faith-eggers/men-love-the-chase#comment-2640 <p>For sure.....ha ha ...faith</p> Wed, 03 Oct 2007 08:55:25 -0400 Faith Eggers comment 2640 at http://www.firstwivesworld.com http://www.firstwivesworld.com/community/vibrant-voices/faith-eggers/men-love-the-chase#comment-2593 <p>Would you send a few my way please??</p> <p>Randie</p> Sun, 30 Sep 2007 14:36:50 -0400 Guest comment 2593 at http://www.firstwivesworld.com http://www.firstwivesworld.com/community/vibrant-voices/faith-eggers/men-love-the-chase#comment-2592 <p>Ha! It's never when you want one that men come around! I think they're attracted to you because you aren't interested. They typically enjoy the chase. I saw this program called "Anatomy of Sex" on the Discovery channel, and it was very telling as to how men and women are "wired". We really are wired differently! It boggles my mind. But, I love men all the same. Good men, that is!</p> <p>CM</p> Sun, 30 Sep 2007 12:44:43 -0400 Guest comment 2592 at http://www.firstwivesworld.com http://www.firstwivesworld.com/community/vibrant-voices/faith-eggers/men-love-the-chase <p>When I finally came to terms with the fact that Levi and I were never going to be together again, I had a whole slew of emotions, but the biggest one was fear. </p><p>I was primarily afraid of being alone, afraid of trying to make it on my own, afraid of change in general. I kept thinking to myself: Who the hell is going to want to date me now? A young girl with an infant — they're going to be running for the hills, right? </p><p>Wrong! </p><p>Recently I've been so inundated by men that it’s freaky! They're all over the place, and they're all over me. My phone rings nonstop, my inbox is constantly full, I could have a date every night if I wanted to. It’s weird. It's fun, and I enjoy the attention, but I am so not interested in having a relationship. I explain this to all of these men — and they're men, so you'd think it would be easy. </p><p>I tell them all that I'm not interested in a relationship, and then they pursue me more. It’s ridiculous. I remember when I was interested in having a relationship, I couldn't find a man anywhere. Now, I'm not interested and they're beating down my door. </p><p>I spoke to a fellow First Wives World blogger about this. Her theory is that men just love the pursuit. They like to get what they've been told they can't have. I'm beginning to agree with her. </p><p>Anyhow, if anyone needs a date, let me know!</p> http://www.firstwivesworld.com/community/vibrant-voices/faith-eggers/men-love-the-chase#comments Mind and Spirit Sex and Love Leisure and Fun Moving Beyond Divorce Sun, 30 Sep 2007 09:00:00 -0400 Faith Eggers 678 at http://www.firstwivesworld.com