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 <description>&lt;p&gt;Funny thing happens when you leave your bubble — you meet people. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Technically, I didn&#039;t even leave my bubble. I was sitting on a concrete slab on campus when a gentleman approached me. He was tall, well spoken, and confident, and politely introduced himself to my friend and me, as well as apologized for interrupting our conversation. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;What I like most was the fact that he wasn&#039;t NYC-coiffed — you know, too well groomed as to reflect a bit of self-centeredness. That kind of primping always turns me off. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;During our brief conversation, I learned that he is in the process of completing his MFA, which also leant itself to his disheveled appearance. I can appreciate that, as there are days where there is room to doubt — based on my appearance — that I am a member of a civilized species. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Long story short, I gave him a card with my number and email address. I figured what the hell, he represented himself so well that I would be a fool not to at least check things out. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I suppose now that things are beginning to wind down, that I may be slightly more relaxed than I have been in months past, which in turn makes it easier for people to approach me. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;While I am not completely in the clear — I still have finals to get through, a job to find and I still have to move, it may be time to start branching out.

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 <pubDate>Tue, 13 May 2008 07:26:34 -0400</pubDate>
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