I don't think it's hoping

Elaina Goodman — Sun, 11 May 2008 15:29:03 -0400

I don't think it's hoping for whether a good or bad thing. I think it hoping for answer, which, no matter what the answer is, is a good thing.

I hear you. RBYS

Guest — Sun, 11 May 2008 10:55:32 -0400

I hear you. RBYS

Is it hoping to lead you to

Guest — Sun, 11 May 2008 09:36:53 -0400

Is it hoping to lead you to whether this is a good or a bad thing? It doesn't always need to be a deep thought- it could just "be." CM

None Of This Is Mine Anymore

Elaina Goodman — Sat, 10 May 2008 16:00:00 -0400

The other night I lay in bed with Sam at his place. The bed that used to be my bed, my favorite piece of furniture. The nightstand that used to be my night stand. The husband that used to be my husband.

And none of it felt like mine anymore. Laying there, body next to body, I was thinking: This man is my husband. And the words surprised me.

I don't feel married. Haven't worn a ring since before I left.

This man is my husband. I don't know what that means anymore.

There's no judgment, no longing. Just the thought. This man is my husband?

It's close to two years we've been apart together. I haven't dated anyone else. Haven't kissed anyone else. Haven't had sex with anyone else. In 15 years there hasn't been anyone else.

When I write these posts, I always feel like they should to go somewhere deep. Land on some wise thing.

I don't have that. No clarity to offer.

I'm just keeping with these words, meditating on the thought: This man is my husband.

This man is my husband.

If I repeat them enough, they'll lead me to the truth.

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I don't think it's hoping

I hear you. RBYS

Is it hoping to lead you to

None Of This Is Mine Anymore