Gos bless Lindsay! CM

Guest — Tue, 06 May 2008 10:27:02 -0400

Counting Blessings Continued: A Tribute To Lindsay

Alice Brooks — Sun, 04 May 2008 14:00:00 -0400

Lindsay knows exactly what to do when a friend is getting divorced. She doesn't press. She doesn't pester with questions. She doesn't fill the space with reassurances or aspersions - she allows silence. She allows time. She knows that what's needed is normality.

At the same time, she'll let you that, anytime you need, it, you can call her and she'll drive out and spend the day with you, or the afternoon, or the hour. She'll take you to lunch, she'll go to a movie, she'll just sit with you so you're not alone.

When you move to a new place, she's the one that will spend the first night with you so you're not alone, making the weekend into a party instead of a chore, keeping any of it from being sad. She'll unpack boxes. She'll organize your closet and your kitchen.

She is, in short, an invaluable friend.

The other reason to look to Lindsay is that she has a marriage that makes me rethink my certainty that relationships can't last. Years in, she and her husband are still in love, still happy, still right for each other. They make room for each other's lives while still sharing them. They compromise. They talk. They are each other's best friends, and they still make out.

There are people like this in the world. There are relationships like that out there. This is good to remember.

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Gos bless Lindsay! CM

Counting Blessings Continued: A Tribute To Lindsay