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 <description>&lt;p&gt;This is something that I hadn&#039;t bargained for. It figures, since bargaining isn&#039;t my strong suit. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;There comes a time in everyone&#039;s life when life-changing decisions have to be made. This time usually comes in conjunction with some drastic change of course: marriage, divorce, death of a loved one, change of job, completion of school, etc. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Sometimes, it&#039;s a welcome change, other times this transition is met with fear and anxiety. And still other times, chance can be a combination of the two, and can leave you tired, confused and, for lack of a better phrase, scared shitless. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I came to the realization a few weeks ago while perusing several Internet job sites that I have no real idea how to go about this. The jumping through the hoops is easy enough; update your resume, dress up, refrain from saying silly things while at the interview, and so forth. The problem I had was this: I have never been in a position where I have had to name my salary. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I know that throughout the years, I have collected a wealth of employable skills, and I now possess the education that many employers deem so very necessary, especially for the fields in which I am interested. What I am lacking is the savvy to put it all together and use it to my advantage. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I know it&#039;s never supposed to make sense all at the same time, but I can&#039;t help but wish it would, just once. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;

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 <pubDate>Fri, 25 Apr 2008 15:00:33 -0400</pubDate>
 <dc:creator>Akillah Wali</dc:creator>
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