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Faith

KarenC — Wed, 23 Apr 2008 16:36:00 -0400

For some reason comment wasn't an option on your most recent blog. Keep records of any communications you get from Levi, his other ex, or anyone else who threatens or tries to intimidate you. Make sure your lawyer has copies of all of it.

Consistent

Faith Eggers — Sun, 20 Apr 2008 14:42:42 -0400

You're right, that's one thing he's been consistent with! I plan on using caller id and not answering the phone. Thanks, Faith

Well, at least he's

Guest — Sun, 20 Apr 2008 09:01:20 -0400

Well, at least he's consistent with his juvenile outbursts! You know what's coming so it wont be a surprise... just don't take any of his crap. I wouldn't even give him the satisfaction of answering his calls... CM

Use Caller ID

KarenC — Sat, 19 Apr 2008 21:11:44 -0400

If you see the call is from Levi, don't pick up if he is irrational. If he starts out okay then gets nasty after you do pick up, hang up. You don't have to put up with any crap from him.

Heading Back To Family Court

Faith Eggers — Sat, 19 Apr 2008 10:00:00 -0400

I went to family court a few days ago and filed a petition for child support. I think they recognize me now, and it's almost embarrassing at this point. I keep thinking that they're thinking, 'Okay, is she really going to do it this time?'

I have an overwhelming urge to explain to them why it is that I keep backing out. But I don't. I'm sure they don't care, and I'm sure they see this all the time.

The papers are easy. It's two pages of fill in the blanks: my name, his name, our addresses and Social Security numbers, Adrian's name and birthday, and that's it.

The last page is labeled "Court Information," and it asks pretty much the same questions as the prior two pages, except that it also asks, height, weight, eye and hair color. I must admit that writing "bald" for Levi's hair color gave me a little laugh.

I just can't believe it's come down to this. I really can't. I mean, I know this sounds nuts, what with all of the other crap that he's pulled, but I somehow still can't get it into my head that Levi is this much of an asshole.

I still can't believe that he doesn't care. But his actions have proven it. This behavior that he's been exhibiting over the last two years is not the Levi that I know, or rather, knew.

This is not somebody I would have ever associated with. I still can't believe that this is the new Levi. I sometimes wonder what exactly is going on in that head of his.

In any case, the papers are filed. I'm more nervous now than I was when I was filing them. I'm sure that he'll receive them in the mail within the next few days, and then, once again, all hell will break loose. I'm going to try my best to be prepared and not to let it affect me this time.