Nice observation - time

Elaina Goodman — Tue, 25 Mar 2008 18:57:54 -0400

Nice observation - time doesn't move backwards! Our chances to be happier are right now. And, I also believe the whole thing is a process that can only happen in the time it takes us to do it. For me, I think it's a matter of discomfort having to surpass fear.

Letting Go and Living

Maya Halpen — Tue, 25 Mar 2008 15:00:24 -0400

The apartment search isn't going anywhere — I can't quite take the leap from the Internet to the field. But I've turned one corner: The thought of giving up my comfy home in order to leave Rob for a trial separation no longer scares me half to death.

That fear had me stuck between staying and leaving. But then I acknowledged the significance of the loss of my beloved abode, and it made all the difference. (Thanks here are owed to my therapist.)

I've taken to wandering through my lovely space, lingering over photos and admiring each item I've collected, from vases to furniture: I found this chair in a yard sale and refinished it; I inherited this curio from my grandmother. I invite the memories they evoke, I acknowledge my sadness, and little by little, I let go my attachment to my possessions.

As I was reminded by a good friend who lost her childhood keepsakes to fire last year, things can be replaced; lives can't. So it comes to this: I've got this one life only. I can't let a nicely furnished apartment keep me from exploring possibilities for a happier future.

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Nice observation - time

Letting Go and Living