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 <description>This is interesting...just goes to show divorce never really goes away. When you have kids together, you&#039;re going to be in a relationship with the ex!</description>
 <pubDate>Sun, 13 Jan 2008 09:33:50 -0500</pubDate>
 <dc:creator>Katherine McKee</dc:creator>
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 <description>&lt;p&gt;Our wedding day is a little more than 100 days away and the chances of me not going crazy before the big day have significantly decreased since last week.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;In a previous post, I mentioned that my fiancé&#039;s family was very adamant about throwing a shower for me sometime this year, and my schedule is already filling up. Plus, I&#039;m not really a huge fan of showers of any type even though I appreciate the sentiment behind it.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;That being said, my fiancé&#039;s parents have been divorced for 25 years and still have a hard time being in the same room together. His father&#039;s family wanted to throw one big shower and invite his side, her side, and any of my friends and family who would like to come. I had not had a chance to run this idea past my future mother-in-law yet because of the holidays, but apparently, we had not moved fast enough for his father because he called my fiancé&#039;s mother and wanted to know what the plan was for the shower.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;So, needless to say, she felt that she was out of the loop and did NOT want to be a part of anything her ex-husband was planning. She called us the other night and she wasn&#039;t mad at us directly, but she was definitely angry. One of the first things she said was, &amp;quot;You know, we are not one big happy family.&amp;quot;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Yikes.&lt;/p&gt;</description>
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 <pubDate>Sat, 12 Jan 2008 19:30:00 -0500</pubDate>
 <dc:creator>Vicky Emerson</dc:creator>
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