firstwivesworld - Episode 6: A Little Something On The Side - Comments

A married man????

Guest — Sun, 30 Nov 2008 03:17:31 -0500

I would not cheat with a married man. I am an exwife who's ex cheated on me. The home wrecking ho' knew he was married and screwed him anyway. Had a huge affair for two years and of course, I kicked him out. I will never understand why woman go after married men. Are they that desperate? That lonely? That vindictive? If a married man asked me out, I would tell him to go to couseling with his wife and when and if he got divorced, call me.

Sleep with a married guy?

Guest — Thu, 27 Nov 2008 14:29:00 -0500

No, no, no. It violates "women ethics," watching out for one another. My ex actually used the rationalization, "In other countries my affair would be completely acceptable." Needless to say, I did not find that argument convincing and filed for divorce shortly thereafter.

would you sleep with a married guy?

sandyrbonner — Thu, 17 Jul 2008 10:35:41 -0400

NO WAY!! My husband cheated on me with everything that would open its legs, and you know what? They all knew he was married...one of them was out BABYSITTER!!! I could not do to any other woman what those women and my husband have done to me.

Sleep with a married guy?

Guest — Tue, 20 May 2008 09:14:43 -0400

Never. First, because it's reprehensible and wrong, and second because karma's a bitch, and will bite you in the ass.

Answer

Guest — Fri, 18 Apr 2008 12:35:43 -0400

Question: And so I put this question to you, dear reader ...would you sleep with a married guy? Answer: No.

Episode 6: A Little Something On The Side

Tue, 08 Jan 2008 10:15:29 -0500

Let's talk about infidelity for a sec. Grab a glass of pinot and consider. I mean, if what they say is true, and more than half of all marriages end in divorce, don't you ever ask yourself, "What part does infidelity play in all this?"

As in "infidel." As in "unfaithful to a moral obligation." I mean, when I sad "'til death do us part," I was naïve enough to actually mean it. And obviously, not all marriages end because of cheating. Or it's a symptom, not the cause, I guess. But here's the thing, a lot of marriages end because someone was screwing around. In the dictionary (yes, I still own one, I'm like the definition of archaic) infidelity comes between "infest" and "infighting." How fucking appropriate. And I say that with love, by the way.

But apparently, I'm alone in my genuine surprise. Let's take Annabelle, for example. She says everybody's doing it. "Open your eyes, Esme. No one's wearing a chastity belt unless they've got a bondage fetish and it's part of their kinky routine."

And at first I'm thinking, "Oh, she's just being a good friend. She's saying this to make me feel better. You know, about my SITUATION." Being a textbook case of mid-life menopause and all. (Note to self: getting A boob job apparently delays menopausal symptoms. Annabelle's still hiding tampons in her socks like a fourteen-year-old girl).