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 <description>&lt;p&gt;The champagne corks haven&#039;t 
yet popped, but divorced women all around the globe know it&#039;s just 
about that time to make resolutions again. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;So, what should it be this 
year? A sharper focus on health and fitness? Maybe a vow to show more 
appreciation of family and friends? How about a promise to do greater 
good for mankind? OK, for 2008, I resolve to 
cease procrastinating! &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;What does that mean? For starters, 
it means I just called my attorney and scheduled an appointment to review 
and update my last will and testament. After all, it&#039;s been 10 years 
since it was last updated, so on Jan. 7, 2008, this will be done. &lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Secondly, it means that I&#039;m 
conducting a careful review of my insurance policies by getting quotes 
from three other carriers. I&#039;ll finish the comparison by January 15 — 
no excuses. For the record, I&#039;d promised myself that I&#039;d undertake 
this review in October (when my policies renew), but Halloween came 
and went, and just like last year, I renewed without shopping around. 
I justified it by telling myself, &amp;quot;I&#039;ll do it next year when I have 
more time.&amp;quot; &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Here&#039;s the big one — the 
one I&#039;ve been tap dancing around for three years now: I&#039;m going 
to the computer store during lunch today to buy software to help devise 
a renovation and construction plan for my basement. As much as I hate 
to do it, I know it must be done, so here goes: I resolve to completely 
renovate my basement by March 30. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Now, let&#039;s recap. What did 
I do? &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;1)&lt;/b&gt; I recognized that I needed 
to stop procrastinating. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;2)&lt;/b&gt; I set specific goals, and 
I made sure everybody knew about them. You see, a goal isn&#039;t a goal 
unless it&#039;s written down and everybody knows about it. Without this, 
it&#039;s merely a wish. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.firstwivesworld.com/resource/relevant-articles/brian-kilroy/setting-goals-2008&quot;&gt;read more&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description>
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 <pubDate>Sun, 30 Dec 2007 16:30:29 -0500</pubDate>
 <dc:creator>Brian Kilroy</dc:creator>
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