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 <description>&lt;p&gt;The &amp;quot;deserving people&amp;quot; I haven&#039;t tipped yet for the holidays are starting to cause me anxiety. Why? Every time I intend to hand over an envelope... I&#039;m out of cash.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;As a single mom, I still have guilt from past years when I completely ran out of money and some people just never got an envelope. There&#039;s this one guy who didn&#039;t make the cut, who I run into all the time. But of course. I know that&#039;s the only thing he thinks of when he looks at me. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;So I&#039;m sitting here trying to cover everyone and figure out how many ATM trips I need to make this week and I&#039;m hyperventilating.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;i&gt;Consumer Reports&lt;/i&gt; took a survey that showed that we now have more people in our lives that need tipping and we also need to tip them more. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Here&#039;s an excerpt of last year&#039;s national tipping average: &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Apartment Building caretaker (super/janitor/custodian) $10-$50&lt;br /&gt;Barber $5-$20&lt;br /&gt;Hairdresser/Stylist $10-$25&lt;br /&gt;Child Care Provider $20-$50&lt;br /&gt;Fitness Trainer/Instructor $ 10-$50&lt;br /&gt;Sanitation/Recycling $10-$25&lt;br /&gt;School Bus Driver $ $10-25&lt;br /&gt;Housekeeper/Cleaning person $25 -$75&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;If there&#039;s someone who provides a weekly service, give them the equivalent of a weeks pay.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;If you have someone in your life for a very long time — like an elder care provider — you should factor in rewarding them for long service as well as the past year.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Teachers, you might note, don&#039;t get cash because it might look like a bribe. A gift worth no more than $25 or a group gift works. Please note: I did see one teacher drive off in a Bentley. It&#039;s your call!&lt;/p&gt;</description>
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 <pubDate>Thu, 13 Dec 2007 08:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
 <dc:creator>Debbie Nigro</dc:creator>
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