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 <description>After reading in the Minneapolis &lt;i&gt;Star Tribune&lt;/i&gt; about wedding ring coffins, I&#039;ve been pondering what should be done with wedding rings after divorce?&lt;p&gt;The idea of a &amp;quot;ring coffin&amp;quot; to reach closure on a bad marriage is unique, but I don&#039;t think it will really offer women any peace of mind. Should you spend $30 to $35 for a satin-lined mahogany wood finish coffin for your ring? I don&#039;t think so.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;There may be some better ways for women to ditch this nuptial knot. I agree with the woman in the story who wants to shove it up her ex&#039;s butt if he only would cooperate. However, a better idea might be to take a hammer and strike the ring once for each year of the marriage, then mail the symbol of marital bliss to your ex and/or to his new girlfriend. Or, throw it into the river. How about just &lt;a href=&quot;/[[]]&quot;&gt;selling the ring, like fellow blogger A.J. Whylder did&lt;/a&gt;? She needed the money! &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Of course, you could melt the ring down and offer the gold to a charity. A more simple solution would be donate the ring to the Goodwill so that it can be sold to further the organization&#039;s charitable work. Bottom line: I don&#039;t think ring coffins will help women achieve closure on a divorce, but it will be possible, in time, to reach that point and move on with your life! &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Click &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.upi.com/NewsTrack/Quirks/2007/09/02/ring_coffin_brings_divorce_finality/4419/&quot;&gt;here&lt;/a&gt; for more.&lt;/p&gt;</description>
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 <pubDate>Tue, 04 Sep 2007 14:23:27 -0400</pubDate>
 <dc:creator>Rachel Small</dc:creator>
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