When you do the dumping, or get dumped

Guest — Tue, 17 Jul 2007 11:19:00 -0400

Dump it all! Know what you have and don't have. Get it all out in the open and be sure it's all cleared up. It's tough, and down right dirty sometimes, but it has to be done. I moved out after my divorce and lost it all. I mean everything, every dime...In the red girls. Don't let it happen to you.

I know what you mean girl!

Yvonne1973 — Tue, 17 Jul 2007 10:43:51 -0400

When I went through my divorce we were as amicable as could be but we still had to divide everything up. This is one of the hardest things in the world but you have to make sure you are protected through the whole ordeal. Thanks for the advice. It really does help in times like these.

Protecting Your Finances And Credit

Rachel Small — Tue, 17 Jul 2007 09:47:17 -0400

When a marriage ends in divorce, more often than not, women face a financial crunch. Dividing the “apple into two, doesn’t give you two apples.” It becomes a priority to structure your divided finances and protect your credit.

Here are some tips:

1. OBTAIN COPIES OF YOUR CREDIT REPORT: Contact Equifax, Experian and TransUnion at www.annualcreditreport.com for free annual reports.

This is a must. You will be able to see your debts and what is in default. Court-ordered and/or consensual division of assets and debt obligations don’t always get carried out. This results in bad credit!

2. LIST ALL OPEN CREDIT AND CREDIT CARD ACCOUNTS: Provide the type of account, credit card, car loan, personal loans and home equity loans. List account numbers and balances and whether they are a joint debt. This will provide an overview of your debt.

This is especially important if your ex handled the finances and you knew little about the marriage debts.

3. SECURED JOINT DEBTS: Car loans, mortgages, home equity loans are backed by some joint asset.

You should consider selling the asset or paying up the debt to get your name removed, especially if you’re behind in payments. You endanger your credit reputation on joint credit if your ex has been lax in making payments.

4. JOINT UNSECURED DEBT: If there are balances due, have the credit card frozen so neither party can make more charges. Obtain a credit card in your own name before freezing joint accounts.

Many of you may not know about the unpaid debt. If there is negligence in paying by your ex, and the bills are going to his address, approach the creditor to see if something can be worked out—paying half of the debt without interest or penalty, especially if you were unaware of the debt.

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When you do the dumping, or get dumped

I know what you mean girl!

Protecting Your Finances And Credit