Everywhere I Turn, Relationship Advice
Everywhere I Turn, Relationship Advice
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A friend of mine who has a life coaching business dropped me a line recently: "Hi, thinking of you, what's up?"
His quick and light email ended with a thud: "Remember, being single is not a burden, it's an opportunity!"
Nice sentiment, but what? I had just made the decision to stick around in my marriage and try really hard to improve it, so the note seemed ill-timed, if not downright rude. I wrote to remind him, maybe not gently enough, of my change of tack.
Well, apparently that line was just his automatic signature, phrased to inspire the bulk of his clientele, and not a message to me personally. Oops. Hee.
We sorted it out easily, but my quick and strong reaction was telling. I'm super-sensitive about my situation, and not always open to advice. Gotta relax.
It's hard, though. When I was young, marriage was made to seem a happy inevitability, a final destination where, having found my one true mate, I would dwell in peace. When instead it's a road pitted with doubts, the going can be rough, and I can get moody.
Life may be a highway, but ride it all night long? I need rest areas, exit ramps!
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