I joined one online community that had dating as a component -- and I had a lot of success with it. I met some very smart and interesting people, and had I been interested in a more long-term relationship, I definitely would have found one. I don't know if I would have been as successful if the site had been *just* for dating - I've looked at a couple of them and haven't found them at all appealing. It's all about the site, I think.

I did meet my fiance on Match.com...however beware don't just jump on that site because I found my prince charming there. Read my story first and find out why it finally happened for me after 5 years being single after my divorce, lots of time, personal growth and research. I like many of you had never really seriously dated before I got married at a young age of 21 and I was suddenly back on the market after my 14 year relationship and then divorce and 2 rebound relationships. I did not really know what I wanted...however I knew what I did not want! I knew myself a little bit, however I knew I needed some more personal growth in order to attract the right person, instead of other men who wouldn't offer me what I wanted. SO long story short I cruised the various internet sites (match, lava life, athletic singles, millionairematch,eharmony , rapid dating, dating mixers etc, all in the name of getting to know myself and getting to know what I wanted. It was a good start, but I still was not finding the right one because I was not clear in myself, my closet was still crowded with old baggage from my past/past relationships/past emotions and I had unconscious fears (that I discovered later) that were inhibiting me from attracting the right man into my life. SO for that 5 year period i stumbled a lot and explored and grew a lot discovering who I was single and relating with others and what was in my closet that needed cleaning out, Then the most important step after I did all of those preliminary steps was to discover and then DECLARE what I wanted and go find just that. AND I DID. I want YOU to uncover you and find what you want too! I wrote a book outlining all the steps I took to finally attract my prince called- The Cinderella System™, 7 steps to attracting the Man & Relationship of your dreams, to help you achieve your dream faster than I did. I created this easy to use system that has exercises for discovery and so that you manifest your partner like I did. I know my journey and this book will help you TheCinderellaSystemBook.com do the homework and your dream and the fairy tale will come true! I am sharing my story and journey in order to help others have what is our right - LOVE and SELF-LOVE!